Is that just? Agree or disagree and give reasons.
2006-09-22 03:20:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Lol no I'm actually 13 :P
2006-09-22 03:28:23 · update #1
I'm 19 for goddsake I was kidding with the guy who was giving me lip :P
2006-09-22 03:44:22 · update #2
Regardless of your age, congratulations for sticking to your guns. If you are not ready, you are not ready and only you can make that judgment call!!! Sex is an important part of life and to be shared between two people who love each other and will stay together for the rest of their lives - regardless of up and down trials.They will make it work. He sounds like a young puppy who is only concerned about scoring and bragging! You will know when the time is right. Feel good about your decision.
2006-09-22 03:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to give ultimatums all the time, didn't change our minds, but did cause unresolved conflicts. If he leaves you then you end up having sex with someone else when you are ready he's going to wonder what was wrong with him. When is anybody really ready anyways? It would be better for him to leave if he can't wait and for you to show him how great his chances are if he just sticks in there and waits it out. He's probably wanting a time frame and really that's something you're not sure about. Just question yourself about your readiness and if this is someone who deserves you. Good luck and I say good day.
2006-09-22 11:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by 4me2no&u2findout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have problems calling the dude a 'loving partner' when he just doesn't seem to fit the bill. Also, you left out some vital information as to how long you and your loving partner have been going together. Also, do you enjoy oral sex or are we talking there is no fire in the hole?
I don't think it is unjust. Sex can be romantic and/or just plain fun (i.e., rock n' roll). Sex is an important part of a relationship and if you are not compatible with your loving partner on sex then it is time to ramble on.
2006-09-22 10:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13, sex should not be an issue in boy/girl relationships. If he is basing his relationships on whether or not a girl puts out, then let him leave. It’s not love. Even at 33, if a man leaves a woman because she won’t have sex outside of marriage…then good riddance to that man.
Love is about caring, sharing, and growing together. It has nothing to do with telling his friends that he went “all the way” with you. Believe, if you were to cave into his hormones, every boy in your class would know about it.
2006-09-22 10:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Maddog Salamander 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as if he is a loving partner. I think that a man should wait a REASONABLE amount of time to have sex with a person they care about but there must be a reason that you don't want to have sex with him. Try looking at it from both perspectives and good luck!
2006-09-22 10:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Special 'K' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take off your clothes, put on a bow, call him up and invite him over, then shag him rotten! What's the big deal? Ready? Ready for what? Sex is great, it's fun and adds a lot of excitement to a relationship. How old are you, 12? Grow up and lighten up. With the tension you're bringing to the relationship now, you're going to lose him anyway.
2006-09-22 10:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then he doesn't love you. I'm sure that you've already heard that all of your life, but it is true. If he is that worried about sex and not your feelings then tell him to F off. He is not worth it. Just imagine if you had sex and got pregnant. Since he didn't regard your feelings of not wanting sex, what do you think he will act like then???? Move on honey. Move on.
2006-09-22 10:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to say bye-bye to anybody that can't respect your decisions in this very personal matter.
And Pandora, you answered one of my questions the other day, if you recall, so keep that in mind, so many men, so little time. I didn't realize you were so young, but I was playing a little, saw your re-post, you've got what it takes, make sure you are ready, it is, quite simply, YOUR DECISION. Let him walk. Peace.
2006-09-23 03:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you answered the question without knowing it... The words YOUR LOVING PARTNER, if they love you they will wait not put pressure on you to have sex when your not ready. it is sad but love is not just about sex it is about commitment to each other.
2006-09-22 10:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by scooter1970 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your partner wants to leave you because you're not ready for sex, then they are more interested in sex than they are interested in you, your feelings, or any emotional bond. Yep, it's that simple.
2006-09-22 10:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋