2006-09-22 03:13:32 · 21 answers · asked by fespinal4444 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because you are a glutton for punishment.
Imagine Cher slapping you and saying SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!!
2006-09-22 03:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would imagine you feel terrible , jealous,angry,upset and depressed , you probably just have hard time letting go, possibly a fear of change ,which some people can mistake jealousy for love ,it's a Territorial issue , i would imagine just because you feel terrible doesn't mean your in love w/the person it just means your pissed off ,unless of course you depend on that person so much you will let them walk all over you, which is never a good thing , perhaps you should re -think this subject because if you forgive the person for that ,then of course there's a next time, now i am not saying everyone who cheats will cheat again because some people won't ,but those are very few and far between so you need to figure out if you want this relationship or if it's that you just don't want someone else to have her it's up to you , and good luck
2006-09-22 03:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by rachel m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on and it does seem like you fall more in love because they do what they can to win your trust and love back. So therefore they seem perfect. When you find that they cheat you don't stop loving them because of what you two share. The flip side is you can't get the memories out of your head.
2006-09-22 06:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um not, if the person i loved cheated on me i would pull a Lorena Bobbit on his A**!
How could you fall more in love? I think you feel betrayed and hurt therefore that feeling might make you feel the need to get that person to like/love you more so you try harder for them to love you and those feelings can be mistaken for falling more inlove
2006-09-22 03:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
. Sorry to have to tell you but that is the wrong response to the stimuli ,somewhere in your brain ,someone or something screwed up the wiring . You are in effect giving that person tacit permission to abuse you-really bad idea.
You need to seek out a mental health professional to fix this problem.
Good Luck
2006-09-22 06:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean you end up falling more in love, but that it hits you, what you could lose if she left you.
2006-09-22 03:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by charmed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,thats not love,we feel the want of having that person more cos then e become adamant to have that person come what may,cos you cant accept the fact that he/she can cheat on you or dump you for the same!!
2006-09-22 03:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The challenge. We all go through this in our younger years. The good guys always come in last. But when you get older, this no longer becomes a challenge but a throw back.
2006-09-22 03:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are too emotionally dependent on her. You are not falling more deeply in love, you are just more emotionally attached because the fear of losing.
2006-09-22 03:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Rebornie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people wouldnt fall more in love,,they would be hurt,shocked and hateful,,you need to sort your self respect mate.sorry...........if she knows this you are rewarding her cheating,not stating your feelings of betrayal,,what should she do to make you propose,,kill your entire family?
2006-09-22 03:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋