You spend a lifetime teaching a child non violent interaction in school and how to be intelligent and rational and not to hit other kids as a means to defuse a situation, and then you come across the problem of another student with a violent home life that zero's in on your child BECAUSE he knows that no matter what he does to your child that they won't hit back?
I have a 6 year old who is sweet and kind and considerate, follows the rules and thinks before doing... who is being terrorized and threatened and hit in the groin by an emotionally disturbed child with what they have called a "Distressing, horrible home life." that is impetious, impulsive and rather dangerous. All they say is that" they will keep them seperated.
What do I do? I am afraid every day that this kid will do something really stupid, really dangerous and can't be taken back or made better. Any teachers have any ideas on what to do? The staff at the school KNOWS this child has it bad and no one does anyth
2006-09-22 02:59:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
The school staff is not only aware, but they frequently have to drive this child home.
Im afraid... Short of taking my son out of a school he is doing well in, and otherwise LOVES how do I take care of this?
2006-09-22 03:00:35 · update #1
I have told him to defend himself. He just won't hit back. He refuses to.
2006-09-22 03:01:31 · update #2
I have had this problem with my son as well, the schools will do as little as possible unless you make it known that you won't stand for this treatment towards your child anymore....go into the school office demand to see the principal and tell them if they do not find a way to protect your child from this kid they know is a problem child then you will get a lawyer and go to the school board and MAKE them find a way. This kid that is bothering yours needs counseling big time! You are your son's Mom and we protect our kids like mother Bears...you won't always be able to protect him but he is only 6....get out there and be a momma bear and GRRRRRRRRRRRR get em!!
2006-09-22 03:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same problem here last year. finally called social services to get info on what to do. if they are witnessed attacks, you can and should call the police to file a complaint when you find out about it. no matter the age of the child ( i did it against a 5 yr old classmate of my daughters) charged them with assault . of course had to have social services investigate also, you should be aware that they will also look into you. so go ahead andinvite them over !! i got written statements from witnesses/and parents. had to go to court outcome was that kid , court ordered : removed from school, counsiling for kid , and his parents.
2006-09-22 04:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by kayann01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The school (teachers and staff) do not do anything other than say tthat they will keep them seperated because they do not want to have anyone jumping on there back for anything. try transferring your kid classes.
2006-09-22 03:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Wondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have already received some good advice. nothing i can add except to agree with them. enough is enough !!!
P.S.--- i read your profile and i believe you're a lot sweeter than you would lead others to believe. Good luck.
2006-09-22 05:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kid is obviously jealous of your kid. the only thing he can do is ignore him and eventually it will stop.
2006-09-22 03:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋