how does one get over a broken heart? how does one begin to live again?

Answer 1

GO TO A NEW PLACE AND START OVER AGAIN.

Answer 2

It does take time to heal from a broken heart, but once you do all you have to do is start dating again. You just go out and look for somebody a little bit better than the last person you dated.

Answer 3

It really depends. Sometimes when the betrayal is very deep, like not only an abandonment, but finding out that person isn't just abandoning you but is running into the arms of someone else they've had on the side for a while, that can be a double whammy and takes longer to get over.

Answer 4

You never completely get over a broken heart...It's one of the worst pains you'll ever feel on this earth...But, eventually, you just gotta begin to live again, and It'll get better with time.

Answer 5

First you have to look at yourself and your actions in the relationship. Your heart will heal with time and you begin to live again by finding yourself. No one can love anyone if the person doesn't love themselves first. Once you start focusing on what you want in life and where you want to be. You will be blessed with that special someone.

Answer 6

refocus your energy and spend time with family and friends, knowing that love relationship is not the only part of life and it shouldn't be the dominant part. treat your ex as a friend. be positive esp. when u feel low as life is full of ups and downs. take time to decide if u have a dream to pursue. when the next guy come don't fall to the same love trap again. it takes a long time to know someone. i wouldn't tell u this if i haven't experience and come out of it. so pls just believe and move on, life is enriching and only u can help yourself. best wishes.

Answer 7

That is often something that can take many years. You just keep going, day by day, moment by moment. Try to NOT listen to all of the songs that remind you of your lost love, so as to not keep having a heightened longing for your old flame, as well as to not fuel your pity party. Spend time with your other friends, as much as you can. You need to get out of the house, and keep on trucking.

Consider serving other people in need, as this is one way of benefitting others, while at the same time, helping yourself. I would also suggest, that you make a clean break. DON'T keep contacting your old flame, as this is just prolonging your misery. I wouldn't try to fill the void by trying to find someone new to fill the hole in your heart. You are not ready for that, as you need to heal that heart, as well as the fact that you would be doing a diservice to the person you try to get involved with, immediately after after your breakup with your old flame. You don't want to hurt others, in the wake of your misery......or at least, you shouldn't want to.

This is a really great time, to find a great Christian Church, if you are not already attending one. Drawing close to the Lord Jesus Christ, will help you to heal much better, as well as to bring you into the proper relationship with Him. This will assure your Salvation........and also assure that YOU, are a better person, for the next Love of Your Life!

I know your pain well. If you abstain from premarrital sex.......you will find it much easier to deal with a breakup. Every time you enter into a physical relationship while unmarried, you are actually giving a big part of you away, which is like being married. You become one, so to speak.......like you are Married, in a way.

It doesn't matter to me, that this concept will not likey be agreed with, by the vast majority out there. But if you just look at society, and all of it's ill's, you can easily, if you are HONEST, see the merit in what I am saying here.

Take care, try not to mope around, and say "Woe is me". I realize that is easier said than done. You must make the effort to stay in a good frame of mind.

Space Cowboy out.

Answer 8

Time heals all broken hearts. Try to stay focused on what you want and keep busy. It will hurt for awhile but in time you will feel better.

Answer 9

Don't listen to "our song" or any other sad tunes.Destroy all photos,letters stuffed toys.Go on holiday with a load of girls,flirt with hot guys,but don't go too far.Just do all the things you used to enjoy before you met him,you know,the ones you gave up because he didn't want to do them.Your broken heart will mend,take it from one who knows.

Answer 10

Nobody wants to hear it, but it's time. You have to make yourself get up, get dressed, and keep busy. Forgive yourself and the other person, no matter what you/they did. Just keep on going and who knows what good things are waiting around the corner! This too shall pass, hon. Keep smiling!

Answer 11

There is a simple and 100 percent effective treatment for this ailment that works every time... namely, find a new bf/gf. I promise you that within a few days you'll be cured.