Is this boy really even my boyfriend...?

Question

we started out as friends in the classroom and he really liked me i kinda scensed it but let it pass. when he first kissed me i started to like him to. we started to have sex and see each other a lot like boyfriend an girlfriend (HE NEVER DID ASK ME OUT VERBALLY) he asumed since we were doing all this stuff we were boyfriend an girlfriend, when we were talking abuot things we together did in the pass i gave him a trick question and asked when was the first time you asked me out and he said i never did ask you out. are we really boyfriend an girlfriend

Answer 1

Yes after havin sex so many times,he is your boyfriend.
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Answer 2

Oh my Lord, what have you done. you had sex with a guy you dont even know he is your b/f. coome on now it clear that this guy is only for your goods. you have a big problem on your hands. he never ask you so technically your not a couple. which is a big problem

let me slove your problem for you.
STOP HAVEING SEX WITH HIM, DONT CALL HIM, DONT EVEN LOOK AT HIM. JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE. THEN IF HE COMES UP TO YOU ASKING WHY YOU ARE ACTING SO STRANGE THEN YOU BRING UP THE SUBJECT. ASK IF YOUR FRIEND WHAT HE THINK ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP. IF HE CANT GET A STRIGHT ANSWER. PLZ RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN.

Answer 3

i dont think the two of you are classified as boyfriend and girlfriend. im in a similar situation to you except i didnt have sex with the guy, he only kissed me and i kissed him many times in the two times we saw each other, but we spent every minute together those two times we saw each other, and i did start to like him when he made the first move and kissed me. as much as i would like to be considered as his girlfriend, im not, and i think that this also applies in your case, even though you two have had sex. mayb you should formally ask him out yourself, seeing as though your relationship with him already seems like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. if he says yes, then you can be classified as girlfriend/boyfriend.

Answer 4

Seems to fit the dictionary definition, but you have problems and doubts.

Definitions of boyfriend on the Web:

a man who is the lover of a girl or young woman; "if I'd known he was her boyfriend I wouldn't have asked"
wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

A boyfriend is a male partner in a non-marital romantic relationship with either a woman or a man.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boyfriend

Answer 5

girl you are way to young to be having sex, if you are asking this question. I do not have an answer to your question, you need to stop having sex with people who you think may or may not be your boyfriend...you are going to get a reputation if you don't already........i hope you are using protection. You certainly do not need to add 'baby mama drama' to this or a STD.

Answer 6

So you like to have casual sex at your age, then what does that make you if you are not bf-gf?

Maybe the two of you should talk about it to help you see what his position is and help you sort this out..

Answer 7

yea and no technically you two are jus booty buddies if you are havin sex but he seems like he doesnt wanna be committed so drop him babygirl drop him 4get about slowly start bringin you two to a stop slowly and he'll get the picture as u two drift apart

Answer 8

Nope. He is using you for sex cause you are giving it up to him. Stop having sex and then you'll see how quickly he stops talking to you. Time to move on.

Answer 9

i think he just wanted 2 get in your pants.he's prob seeing a lot of other girls 2 since he never asked u out officially.i'd say break it up before he breaks up with u!good luck!

Answer 10

Psshh..He' just a player..get away from him. A decent guy will actually ask you out.