feel so guilty you did nt know what to do?
2006-09-22 02:14:56 · 17 answers · asked by Chris F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As to what adultery constitutes, I would have to say that I committed adultery against my ex wife... but at that time, my ex and I were separated for well over a year, living in separate houses, and just waiting for the judge to sign the divorce decree.
I wouldn't say that was 'cheating' because we were no longer in love, no longer together, and no where near reconciling.
2006-09-22 02:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel so guilty you don't know what to do talk to a therapist but do not tell your spouse at the moment all that does is make you feel better and them feel worse if they don't have a clue and you didn't put them at risk physicaly ie condom then all you will do by telling them is get it off your chest and lay it squarly on their shoulders. It's not their fault you no self control and don't really expect to be forgiven because the truth is once you have confirmed infedelity you might go on in the relationship but it's impossible to forget so your spouse spends all this time and worry that they are not being enough and every time you get stuck in traffic their stomach gets tied in knots it's just more punishment. Live with your guilt and make a promise to yourself to never put your relationship through this again.
2006-09-22 02:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must be 1001 issues. each so often the females fault, maximum circumstances its no longer even with the indisputable fact that. there is not any longer merely a million difficulty that makes us cheat. some universal motives contain: a million.) the guy would not sense his sexual desires are being met 2.) He has a second of weak spot with a woman he considers is truly appropriate 3.) merely randomly to get our rocks off Thats only a pattern few of truly 1000's of circumstances. in case you could say you've positioned your heart and soul right into a relationship and given it 100 and ten% and couldn't have achieved some thing in a unique way in case you had a 2d danger, it wasn't your fault.
2016-11-23 14:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by marinaccio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did cheat but I did not feel guilty. I was in a bad relationship ans had a friend who was there for me no matter what. One thing lead to another and it happened I did not go out looking for it. This person is still one of my best friends and only time wil tell what happens.
2006-09-22 02:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I still feel guilty about it to this day. It's been about 5 yrs. I feel guilty about causing my husband so much pain.
2006-09-22 02:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-09-22 02:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-09-22 02:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...but if your feeling guilty you need to stop and move on. Forget what you did and make it right from here on. Why cry over spilled milk? Turn it around my friend. Learn from your mistakes.
2006-09-22 04:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes once and I got wasted and blurted it out and I actually cried and he realised I didnt want to do it and the fact that I felt so rubbish for doing it to him.
2006-09-22 02:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by babybitch69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because Im not stupid enough to cheat on someone I want to be with.
2006-09-22 02:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋