what should a girl do to understand her would be husband before marriage? what should she do to amuse him and to tell him that she loves him?what questionsshould she ask to test how much he loves her?
2006-09-22 02:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you consider a taking a lifetime partner it would be wise to choose someone with whom you can agree. This person should be someone you can respect, always. So you have to ask yourself, if I was not in love with this person, then who is he? Do I forgive all his faults because I am in love? Is he someone other people respect? If I look a couple years down the road for this relationship...what do I see? (If he survives this far then now is the time to see how much he loves you.) Show him the realities of what a marriage will cost. Nothing tells with people like money. Do a houshold budget. Look at what will be required of both of you to sustain it. Know what your responsibility will be and expect him to be able to tell you what his resposibilities are. Finances gone bad will kill a relationship. Then remind him that love, honor, and cherish are the contract before "death do us part." Demonstrate to him that you do love, honor and cherish him because he is who he is. Remember not to confuse love and sex. Sex in marraige is an act born of love. Love is an emotion born of trust and respect. Trust and respect have to be earned and then sustained and that is what makes a marriage.
2006-09-22 02:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get some relationship counseling.
You shouldn't have to "amuse" him. Marriage is fun but its also a lot of work that requires compromise from both people in order to build a life together.
Why would you feel a need to "test" him to see how much he loves you? You should feel secure in the relationship before agreeing to marry him.
If you have all of these questions and concerns it sounds like now might not be the best time to get married.
2006-09-22 09:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ravishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Roxi,
I think u r quit Innocent or very smart. The friends r the best adviser for ur answers. Though make me also ur friend. First u have to watch very carefully about ur would be Hubbies liking & disliking.
If he is the man of today He will also understand ur likings & dislikings.
If u find any thing strange in him just find out the reasone behinde,
Never hit ur better half's emotions. Try to make him understand in diffrent ways. Respect him & u'll be loved by him
2006-09-22 13:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship,love,marriage all does not happen suddenly.you should know the person,his interests in life and particularly his love and feelings for you,unless you both meet,talk,get physically attracted you will not be able to say anything.apart from understanding your husband you will have to take care of his other family members as well".
2006-09-22 11:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by toliagoldstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. You will be having many babies like many in India and then you will be an expert for crying out loud
2006-09-23 00:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say seek counseling a month before you get married to make sure this is what you want.
2006-09-22 09:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall inlove immediately. travel to him by always family members. then shift to him.
2006-09-22 18:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by meenakshim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know that about him before you get married then your not ready to be married.
2006-09-22 09:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a spanker. sorry but they're just silly questions.
2006-09-22 09:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-09-22 09:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋