been with my boyfriend for a year, everything was going good it was almost 2 perfect well in2 are one year my boyfriend got a job witch kept him out through the week but left some and most everyother weekday for him 2 spend time and call me, iam very understandable about his job and trust him a great deal, well he started to take his friend with him to work who lives in another county so instead of driveing back an forth he stays there pearmenatly, THEY HAVE NO TELEPHONE (proven fact i have been 2 their house) so he cant call me and sometimes i dont get to see him for 2-3 weeks let alone hear from him, well this is the 3rd time i havent heard from him and it has been 3 weeks but one of the girls i work with saw him at a party and it made me heated beacuse if he has time to party he should have time to be with me or call me, so i decided when he stops calling me iam single and just as him iam free to do what i want, well i recently had sex with one of my good friends is that cheating!!
2006-09-22 01:53:05 · 23 answers · asked by LightSkinnedPrincess 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Pearsonaly I dont think i cheated beacuse i did state i was single and untill he calls me i believe iam in a relationship with him,
iam going to church to get reborn again
2006-09-22 01:53:58 · update #1
jsut ask him did he cheat.
2006-09-22 09:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mrs.SweetLove♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you better get you some because he obviously is out doing his own thing and probably cheating too.You know how often he liked sex when he was with you all the time, how many times do you thinks hes cheated while he's been gone for 3 weeks at a time? Your not in a relationship any more, move on, he's not into you no more besides your to good for him and he doesn't deserve you. Your not a cheater, he's a just an @$$ hole. Go find a real man. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 09:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you had "revenge" sex with your "good" friend and that is purely a waste of time because if any thing, you only hurt yourself and possibly your relationship with this "good" friend!!
As far as your so called boyfriend(?) not calling you for 3 weeks because of no phone in the house is a lame *** excuse!! and totally unacceptable. Are there no PAYPHONES available? If he works that many hours, then surely he could buy a pre-paid cell phone!!!! sounds to me that "boyfriend" wants "his cake and eat it too". If he hasn't bothered to even try to contact you in 3 weeks, I say dump his ***!!! Don't even look back, or give it another thought! He is not even worth your time and surely not worth a "revenge/pay back sex"...to the point you feel so awful about it you feel the need to go to church to be "born again"!! You need to realize that you deserve better!!! There are plenty of other guys that are more worthy of your time, love and affection!
Be strong and good luck!!!
2006-09-22 11:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by suzi i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him your "decision" to be with him when he calls and be single when he doesnt? If you didn't tell him this then you cheated on him. And if you really feel like this then why are you with him at all?? Just drop it altogether and be single for a while. I think I would be a little more careful and not just go sleeping with guys. I won't preach to you because I'm sure you know the consequences but be young and have fun. You dont need a guy to do that.
2006-09-22 08:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he wants his cake and to eat it too so whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Do what you please and if asks about it tell him you thought it was a relationship where you guys do what you want and still see each other. Let him know he was seen at a party instead of stoping and calling you. By the way it's not cheating if there is nobody there to cheat on. He's the one cheating you by taking away from your together time.
2006-09-22 09:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by angie1977c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind of drawn.....1 I guess morally it is cheating because you did in fact call him your boyfriend...but with this I think you need to have some kind of relationship to cheat .and to me it does not really sound like you have one with this so called b/f so I think if it were me I would just let him go.Do not waste your time calling him or any of that .If he does not have the time to call you or see you yet he can go to a party (unless this party was work related?) I think he is in fact spending his time with other ladies and you should take this time to meet someone new also.GOOD LUCK
2006-09-22 09:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating. You stated that YOU decided that when he stopped calling you would be single. If you did not express that to him, then yes you are cheating. You need to break up with someone then you are allowed to do your dirt.
Anyway - it doesn't sound like your relationship with your boyfriend is going well anyway. He should be able to call you somehow, in this day and age there are cell phones!!! There is no excuse for him not to call you. And if he cannot get approved for a cellphone, they have prepaid cellphones!!
2006-09-22 08:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all congradulations on your rebirth. As far as your boyfriend is concerned. Ask him to be straight up with you and if he wants to be with you then he needs to act like it. With him not calling or you both not seeing each other is him kinda saying you are not worth his time. You were absolutely right to feel if he has time to party he has time to go to a pay phone to call you. If he doesn't that means you are not a priority to him and you need to find someone who will cherish you the way you deserve to be cherished.
2006-09-22 08:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,that was cheating because you do have sex with oder guy,,,,i think you sould have confirm first what youve heared,,,you just dont what was the true reason why he is not calling you,,,,dont you know girl that there is a karma and even if you go to church a hundred times you will never get back your virginity!!!!!
2006-09-22 09:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by -via- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it isnt cheating for get him just not completely because eventually he will come back in the picture.i had a guy that did about the same thing about 6 months later the guy came back think i was still his gf...its wasnt pretty but i got rid of him
2006-09-22 08:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..Sounds like a tough situation you got here...I guess just wait around and see what happens the next time you talk to him...But, Idk..I'd probably just break up with him, as hard as I'm sure that is to do for you, It's probably the best thing for you both right now..
2006-09-22 08:57:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋