My boyfriend martin used to like my bestfriend kat. But martin chose me and now we're happy wth eachother. the problem is that, kat is still inlove with him and she wants to win him back. ****! I don't know what I'm gonna do.
2006-09-22 01:47:06 · 40 answers · asked by mudface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
XXXXXXXXXXX Easy answer. Get a new best friend.
2006-09-22 01:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i can see from your question is kat still likes him or he still likes Kat but the question you should be asking is Dose he wanna be with Kat or you? if Yes he want to then nothing you could do really, cos as the end of the day he might be with you and but his heart isnt there and end up cheating on you, so seat him down and talk to him and know where you stand. As for Kat let her be... there is a saying that gos Take 2 to tango, if she dose like him and he doesn't like her nothing will happened.
2006-09-22 01:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by jeje 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Kat is going after your boyfriend then she's not much of a friend. Get away from her. On the otherhand if she's not trying to get him, but is just hurting over the loss, try to be sensitive to her and keep your relationship with Kat seperate from that with your boyfriend.
2006-09-22 01:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend if he has the same feelings for her/him and hear him out. Tell him that if he doesn't love you the way you love him that you would like him to leave now rather than try not to hurt your feelings and wind up hurting you more. Be kind to him. If he says he loves you only and you know that he treats like a person with a good heart and a standard intelligence rather than a barbie with sand for brains then he is a good man for you. You've got a keeper.
2006-09-22 02:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both bestfriend's?cant she understand that he is with you and that you are both happy together?Come on bestfriend's aren't what you think they are.If she was your bestfriend she would have accepted the fact that you are with him.I would break it to her and tell her how you feel and that it was his choice he chose you and not her.There are alot of other boy's out there you know tell her to move on.You dont need friend's who are interested in your bf.That will only cause a big domestic between you and your bf.Interference with a girl who love's your bf will make your relationship even more tense.
2006-09-22 02:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to think about what best friend really means. You both need to doing this. Why are you both do this over a guy. #1 rule can not date the same guys past ,present or future. You should have never dated her ex. Maybe best friends is not the word for you guys.
2006-09-22 01:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure your boyfriend knows about the situation but say it in a way which doesn't make you sound like you're just being jealous. You just need to gently warn him what she is trying to do and maybe even give him the option. This is a mature way to approach it and if he hesitates or shows any interest in her then at least you know you aren't going to be wasting your time on him.
2006-09-22 01:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main point is about your bf and if he is firm and love u then that will be good. spend time talking to your best friend let her know u value her friendship and wouldn't want this matter to jeopardise your relationship. meanwhile tell your boyfriend how u feel gently. if he flirt and can't stand the test of this relationship, either may he after marriage. u need to trust your bf though for the moment as confrontation and jealousy will kill this relationship.
2006-09-22 02:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough...cause IF you really love Martin...you should be happy..BUT are you with him just so he WON'T be with her..I'm not trying to sound mean...really! If he was to break up with you...would you still be friends with her?!...
Guys are a dime a dozen...and some girlfriends are thicker than blood...like family...Hope that she finds someone else to like...or just stop hanging out with her...Sorry! BUt that's a small time bomb waiting to go off... GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-22 01:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS HE INLOVE WITH YOU? if yes then ignore her but talk to him about it and both of u decide what to do you can both sit her down and give her the talk but if u came btw them then gal sorry he will go back to her but rem there is no man worth fighting for with your best friend coz best friends stay forever, and they will support u in all things in life i write from experience
2006-09-22 02:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your true friend if she was she would be happy 4 you tell her that she is out of order but you are with your man now so even if she does still love him you are with him
dump her *** she is not a friend
true friends dont do that to each other
good luck!!
2006-09-22 01:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by cottencandy2391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋