2006-09-22 01:38:34 · 35 answers · asked by trevorchipfat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok. You have definitely got a situation. First off, you can't dump her at this point. Just know it's almost over and hang in there. You can have conversation now to lay out a future plan. Gently let her know that it is not your intention to stay. Explain to her that you are not leaving her to face everything alone, and that you are going to help her be independent and secure. Expect the tears. Make sure you have the financial funds to make the separation and help her to put her finances in place, including WIC and child support. Yes, child support. You can move out but you cannot run from the fact that you now have an adult obligation. (I am assuming the child is yours. If it is not the child support still can be put in place before the baby is born, I think. Ask.) You need to be doing these things. Just before the baby is born most women can barely do anything because the baby is so heavy now that little things are exhausting. Show her how you want the split to be. Treat her with respect. Through all your words and actions teach her that you are a man she can respond to with respect. You are both about to experience one of the greatest wonders of the world. Think of how you would have like to have been taken into consideration at the moments before you were brought into this world. I speak for this little child who deserves the best entrance he can make. Son, this falls on you. You will never regret that you handled this the right way. In the end, you will be a man.
2006-09-22 02:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sod it, just walk out on her while she is in labour, I mean lets face it u are clearly a complete t**t anyway so at least if u do it that way there will be no danger of her forgiving u and getting back with u-much better for her and baby if she never has to clap eyes on u again! I am also assuming that as u are such a self centred idiot u wont be bothering to support her financially so leave ur stuff at her palce so she can flog it and at least get something out of u.
2006-09-22 04:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by hellllooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either this is a joke or we have here another idiot who who can't keep his trousers on. Have you never heard of contraception? I expect that you think that it is great to keep fathering children dumping the mother when you get bored and leave it to the poor old tax payer to pick up the pieces!! Never mind the damage done to the poor children, who don't ask to be born. Really I think people like you should be castrated!
2006-09-22 02:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Grannygrump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start your an absolute W**k*r! But this lady and baby would be much better off without such a shallow excuse for a man in their lives! so why dont you just leave her a note and explain how you feel and just go if you have more guts then sit her down and tell her your not ready to be a father and you are going to leave but expect tears!!!!!!! this poor gorl will be much better off without You I PROMISE!
2006-09-22 01:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Trev, you'd better hurry up and do it quick before her bundle of joy is born, cos then she'll probably realise what a prat you are and dump you first.
2006-09-22 01:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by magnoliamillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sick f u c k and need a good slap to the face you call your baby it? i mean wtf?
you get her pregnant then when you cant handle it you want to dump her well if you are going to be as coldhearted as that then she is better of with out you
you are a losser she can and WILL do better!! with out some one like you in her life!!
2006-09-22 01:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by cottencandy2391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life that's your child u made so grow up and start to be a dad.but by the sound of u she will be a hell of a lot better off with out u.u selfish piece of dirt.get a life and grow up fast.
2006-09-22 10:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by twinmum1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she'll dump you because you're such an idiotic ar**hole
Maybe she already dumped you and the baby's not yours
Maybe you'll stop asking such dumb questions when you know all you'll get are smart replies
2006-09-22 02:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you. I hope that she dumps you and that you never ever have the joy of being a husband and father.
2006-09-22 01:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by London Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By text. You don't want her blubbing when you're getting ready to go out and pull.
Or you could just push her down the stairs.
2006-09-22 02:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by bearos3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋