i want to know the truth behind a person.like what shows is a fake reality lies inside a person so what is the better way to judge some one
2006-09-22 01:35:06 · 13 answers · asked by pinku 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
There are three things on which a person can be judged.
1.Body Language & gesture
2.His Manners and Etiquette
3.The quality in choosing the word and power of convencing.
If you study above you will be able to read any person - 90% only.
2006-09-22 01:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone and i do mean everyone, you , me, them everyone wears a false face. Its the face that they give to strangers. The easy smile the charming good morning when you feel like screaming. Only when you get to know a person through conversation or acohole do you find out thier true personna. People throw up walls to protect themselves from others whom they consider inferior to themselves. Are you worth my time? Should i speak would you even understand? People look at you and instantly judge you from the way you wear your hair to the clothes you dress yourself in. A blonde in a low cut top and tight pants walking a poodle must be either a ***** or stupid. A fat man sitting on a park bench with a torn shirt and old tennis shoes must be a lazy good for nothing slob living off society. Dont judge a book by its cover or you might just miss the story within.
2006-09-22 09:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow good question arent we all finding the answer to that one. Ok I ahve view ,yes u can judge a person by looking at him keenly BUT whether ur a good judge or no can be learnt only by experience, trial and error. My answer is vague but it has a definate answer in the direction u take. Watch keenly , make a mistake but note the deduction and adhere all these experiences for future liasons and interactions. See over a period of time u will be a judge. ANSWER is watch keenly, ask specific same questions always and note the answers and facial happenings. WATCH the walk and look before u even meet someone..........wat u elarn u will experience and its difficult to give that experience pointwise.
2006-09-22 08:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Vishal P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
It sounds like
1. You've had a lot of instances where people have turned out wrong after you've got to know them and you want to save yourself from more of that.
2. There's a particular person you want to be sure of before you go ahead and get to know them.
At one glance, you can tell whether a person is well groomed, confident and pleasant, but not much else, unless you have strong instincts or have studied body language in detail (which I strongly suggest you do not indulge in as an amateur study with this agenda in mind).
A good way to tell is to meet him/her in a public place and see how that person treats people who are junior/subservient to him/her - like servants or waiters - it tells you a lot about that person. If they are disrespectful, then you will what the person is made of.
But having said that, I suggest to you, be clear hearted, and approach people with no agenda, with a very positive attitude. They will see this, and react positively to you. And you'll never have to wonder if they re fake or not.
2006-09-22 08:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by friedpaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the eyes of ordinary people, if they do not fear to look back in the same way, most probably such people are of good character. Because, honest people usually have the courage to face others. Honesty is the corner stone of character.
But we cannot identify an expert liar by looking at once, otherwise there was no need to use machines to prove whether they are true or false during criminal investigations
2006-09-23 14:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by joseph r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to judge someone is not to judge them at all. It's fine to get an impression of someone, to try to figure a person out but there's no good in being judgemental for any reason for anyone.
2006-09-22 09:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by bobzyoda@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll miss a lot of really nice people by juding them "at once"....
Suppose you started off on the "wrong" foot that day or they did? You need to see them in several different situations and see how they handle it. Does that person care about people? How do they handle some bad times? Does that people treat others like a doormat? Is that person someone you'd allow to know your deepest, darkest secret? ...... all sorts of things
A person who judges others is not someone I would want for a friend. I hope I don't know you for real. Ironically, that's bad character....
2006-09-22 09:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes friend thisa is just possible if u ant to do thi su have to go with the stiudy of some books like personality seekersand other the body langyuuage which will help u to define the personality of a pertson in the fordsyt meet
2006-09-22 09:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by nicefriendvikas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is up to us to judge anyone. we all have our flaws inside and out. if we could show a little grace and mercy and remember that no one is any better than anyone else, we would all be a lot better off. but if you have to look at anything, you should look at the inside because the outside is fleeting and in vain (as we can tell by the way Joan Rivers tries to hold on to her youth).
2006-09-22 10:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by writing is my gift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to judge someone is obviously by talkin to them more than 1ce...i dnt believe that the first impression is the last impression...u cant judge someone jst by the way the look or act the first time u meet them he/she mite have been havin a bad day...
2006-09-22 08:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by Amna Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋