I don't know why many teenagers agree in it. Is it really a sin? What would you prefer, marriage first before sex or sex before marriage?
2006-09-22 01:00:38 · 26 answers · asked by mudface 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Better get it before because trust me, it's harder to come by afterwards.... lol
2006-09-22 01:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well nowadays its mostly premarital sex. I mean look at all the teens pregnant at 15 now. Almost all my friends were pregnant and had two or more kids by age 17 - and this was about 7 years ago. The bible says its a sin, but you know what if you read the bible EVERYTHING WE DO IS A SIN. Even little things that we don't think are a sin. Everyone is committing a sin even if its not having premarital sex. I would of preferred to wait till I got married, but you know what things happen!!!
2006-09-22 01:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that people at any age should have sex before marriage. I am 16 and i have enver had sex. There are so many diseases, why even take the chance. and my belief is that if you have sex at any age everytiem you have sex you better be ready accept that you could become a parent. So if your 12 and your thinking about haveing sex do you want to have a child right now? if the answer is no then dotn have sex. If your 30 and single ask yourself the same questioon if not the n dont. Also if you are in doubt then dont!! I mean you would think that with everythign on the news or in the media that teens would know that if you have sex you could get pregnant or ge t aids exc. But i guess they just over look it. People think i am werid because i dont have sex and i wont until im married, people in school do make fun of me but it does not matter to me at all becaus ei am being true to myself and playing by my rules, i have my exspecations of myself and i have standards and i will not break that promise. Do I beleive i God? Yes, is that the reason i am staying absenent? Yes but also because its a personal choice and either way i would not have sex.My dad says we are Christans, we do belive in God and read the bibel alittle but we dotn go to church so i guess im more spiritual than religous, but it is your choice but in whatever situation you are in please think before acting.
2006-09-23 15:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Carly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everone has different morals & different beliefs. I don't believe in sins so that doesn't really come into it for me but I really think it is a good idea to get to know each other REALLY well before you get married & part of that is the physical part of the relationship. Certain things work well for one person won't work for another & whatnot so I just figure iron out as many things as possible before getting married because afterwards it just adds to the daily issues. As long as you're safe then I can't see a problem.
2006-09-22 01:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by shirazzza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with it, but then I like sex and don't see it as something that should be hoarded away. To me sex is as natural as breathing. We tend to get all prude and uppity over teenagers having sex, but if they were well educated and prepared for it, there wouldn't be half the problems there are now. Most other countries aren't as stiff as America tends to be, and they don't have the problems we do when it comes to teenage sex. Just look at Sweden.
As far as the marriage thing goes it's like buying a car. Would you rather inspect the car first and take it out for a test drive or pay the money down and just take your lumps as you get them?
2006-09-22 01:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry i don't accept this because being a guy i can't imagine my wife having an experience and she comes and says he was much better than you .Similarly she would rather don't want a husband who had premarital experience.For people who say how will you know what to do did people in the Olden times have premarital sex yet they were able to satisfy not one but many wives after marriage.
SO MARRIAGE FIRST.
2006-09-22 01:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gowtham B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I had sex for the first time when I was 19. I did not marry the guy. The next guy I had sex with I did marry. We did have sex before marriage but I really wish I would of waited. It works out better if you just wait but not very many poeple are willling to wait.
2006-09-22 01:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i think that u should do what ever YOU believe is right and what ever you believe in. I believe that you don't HAVE to be married to have sex but i still respect those who do believe it in. People who don't agree with sex before marriage should also respect that its their choice. I'm not a christan don't go to church or anything so i don't believe in sins
2006-09-22 01:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the Bible says it's a sin, but we all know that's not gonna keep people from doing it. i think if 2 people are genuinely in love with eachother, intimacy and sex is one way of showing that love. and if you want to wait until marriage, then i applaud and respect you, but my husband and i didn't wait until after we were married and i don't really expect anyone else to either.
2006-09-22 01:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Vol_Fan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a personal and spiritual choice. My best advice on this subject is that if you have to ask, it most likely isn't right and ask yourself how you would feel if your parents found out... That should answer it for you.
As for if it is a sin or not, if you are Christian, the bible says that it is a sin...
Good luck an ddon't do anything you might regret.
2006-09-22 01:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Song Seeker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex is a primary need in all human beings, its normal, natural and very healthy. Presuring people to "hold out" untill they are married causes people to marry young, without knowing there partner for as long (or as intimately) and can lead people to marry for sex rather than for a real companion that they love. I think this "pressure" contributes to such high marital breakdowns, and worse people being unhappily married for life !!
2006-09-22 01:08:15 · answer #11 · answered by psycgirl25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋