When i was 19 i fell in luv with a girl, luved her so much...ghosh!!!! It has been 6 years now we broke up and more then 4 years i have seen her face, still i dont delete her mails from my inbox, still i remember her face her smile her innocense......
Well let me tell u the intersting part, I am married its not that i dont luv my wife, i luv her very much, she has reconstructed me when i was once broken into pieces by my first luv......I respect her...
...But why do i remember my first luv, that i still want her cant forget her still have tears when i remember my first luv....she left me and gave me pain for me to remember, but yet I still luv her so Much.........Help guys......????Please.....get me out of her thought........
2006-09-22 00:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jay Friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One rarely forgets thier first love, so thats simply not gonna happen. But you need to move on and let go. Start by deleting her emails. Hanging on to anything thats connected to her isnt helping you, its only hurting.
2006-09-22 00:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....everyone remembers their first love.
Sounds like you need to try and figure out what was so great about her that she's stuck in your head this long. Did you get any closure when the two of you broke up? This could be part of the reason that you think you still have feelings for her. Try writing her a letter (not to be sent) and pour your feelings out in it. Tell her how you felt when she left and what that did to you.
Sometimes we exaggerate our memories of things that happened in the past until they're so blown out of proportion that we don't recognize the original. Maybe this is what you did with your memories of the old girlfriend. Try to put it into perspective, write the letter, burn it, then move on with your life. It's not healthy for you to hang onto these memories the way you are.
2006-09-22 08:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very pwoerful force and emotion. At one point it can be the greatest part of your life and then it can turn around and stab you in the back. It's one of the greatest but yet most depressive emotion going.
Maybe you're remembering her because something you've seen or heard etc has reminded you about her and how much you loved her. Try and concentrate your feelings on your wife. If you love her truly it may help you stop thinking about your ex.
I hope this helped..
2006-09-22 08:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rachie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you really love someone, even though they leave physically and leave you hurting, your love for them never goes away. Another thing, that you still love her shows that you've forgiven her for hurting you (and that's hard to do). Just keep loving your wife and remembering the past love fondly. You can remember her with love and it not get in the way of your marriage.....
2006-09-22 07:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married now it is time to put the pass in the pass, You always remember your first love the one that you knew you truely loved ..... But you have to rememeber she hurt you and it seems she hurt you bad. Block her emails for get her and make a happy life with your wife and family you have now.
2006-09-22 08:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she left u for no reason then u should be happy she did so else if u had got married to her and she would have left u then u would have been even more miserable... u should be happy with ur wife... dont let her know this... she's innocent so dont let her suffer... concentrate on ur marital life n pls do an effort to delete her emails... gd luck
2006-09-22 07:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all remember our first loves fondly. The trick is not to let it control your life. Don't you think it is a bit disloyal to your wife?
2006-09-22 07:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Quartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want now??
Go back to your old love, i'll take care of your wife.. dont bother about her or maybe even she also think about some of her old lover.. who knows.
2006-09-22 08:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋