one of my frnd have a bf.but when her mother came 2 know this her mother forbade her 2 continue d relation but my frnd secretly continued d relation. I helped my frnd for doing this and for this I had told several lies 2 her mother and now I am felling guilty cuz I never told much life b4.Now shud I stop helping her.If I once stop helping her she will break our friendship.what shud i do?
2006-09-22 00:27:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey jst chill...well i dont sya urnt to blame...ya rite u r wrong on ur part..but urnt completely wrong on ur path...so please dont feel guilty..i mean u dint have ny bad intensions for nyone..u jst wantd to c ur frnd happy...n nothng worng in tht..ur only mistake is u lied to her parents...i mean u shudnt have done tht....but dnt please continue doing tht...n tell ur frnd ki u feelin guitly...n u dont continue lyin...n hello dnt tell me ur frndship is tht week ki ur frnd wont b able to understnd ur feelins...i mean she will surely understnd uuu....n please u shundt feel guilty as ur frnd isnt feelin guilty whn she is doin somethng wrn by hidin it frm her parents...so...pleaseeeee u dnt feel guilty but jst stop lying....as ur frnd mite land up in some trbl...coz u n i cant predict our future
2006-09-22 01:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chweet_alien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a friend, you have to advise her correctly.
A true friend is a mirror to oneself.
All that is beautiful comes out of truth
and lie never produce any such thing.
Sometimes, bitter truth is better not
spoken, so as not to harm each other.
You have to judge the situation.. and in
case you are absolutely certain that there
is going to be no harm to you from all the
involved, you may advise your friend to be
frank with her mother. No truth can be hidden
for long. It is your friend's duty to live in
conformity with the tradition, dignity and
social status of her family. Please ask her
to take it serious.
If she doen's listen, better you keep silent
and keep away for peace of mind. Everybody is
responsible for her/his life. A girl need to be
all the more cautious in dealing with the opposite
sex, so that her future is not doomed... whereas
a boy has nothing to lose.
2006-09-22 07:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are a really true friend try out speaking to her. As it is if any a time when her mother comes to know that u lied her u will be no where in a position to face yourself too. True friends are the one who try to take out friends out of troubles. But reading u it seems u are creating troubles for ur friend as well as yourself.
get things corrected before u lose everything, trust, faith, love and also friendship.
2006-09-22 09:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by amrita k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur friend knows what she is doing.
u r helping her which not wrong. i hav also done the same thing. but just tel her to be more alert.
but dear, i think when we feel guilty of any thing we should stop that. as a friend it is ok but as a human being if u thing this is wrong than go and tel her that " i will not help u any more. what i feel is, this is wrong and i am afraid of doing all this so plz don't force me to do all this. but i want be your friend always and i will help u in every thing other than this"
its my advice to u don't take life so seriously have fun and enjoy it
i am sure she will not able to find any friend like u
2006-09-22 12:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by priya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER lie to anyone for anyone.You don't say how old your friend is but I'm sure her mother has a good reason for forbidding her to see this guy. Ask yourself how you'd feel if she were to get in trouble-like getting pregnant? She really isn't much of a friend if she's asking you to lie for her.
2006-09-22 07:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by piowine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u r not wrong. instead ur friend is wrong in keeping her mother in a dark. u can do nothing but just pursuade ur friend to tell the truth to her mother. u should not stop helping her as u may also need her help someday
2006-09-22 07:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her u cant help her ne more'
tell her dat its her bf n its her probs hw she handles da relationship if shes a good gf
tell her u r not used to tell in lies i hope she understands
i think she is treating u like a servant
if i wuld b in ur place n if she wuldnt agree i wuld just end off the matter by breakin our friendship
every 1 has a freedom of choice'
so if u agree n liked wat i said plz give me 10 points
2006-09-22 09:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by beckham_soccer28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should old her that she is wrong, beacuse she is in love and a lover which is fool always think that both he and his partner is right and aal others are the enemies of their love, so please keep it in mind and do what u wanna
i suggest do some thing to tell any one which accidently blanme u
if need more help mail me
regards
vikas kumar
2006-09-22 09:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by nicefriendvikas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur in a right mood now.. if u helpin a poor guy means a bad guy means u should stop those..advice your friend.. if he is a good guy then go ahead..
2006-09-22 07:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by visakagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her such things wont be permanent reliefs ..and tht when in a relationship understand its value..
Tell her to stop saying such small lies as it may lead to the breakup one day that may be of severe proximity..
Please TALK TO HER ..TELL HER.... SHE IS UR FRIEND...MAKE HER UNDERSTAND HER RESPONSIBILITY.!
ALL THE BEST GIRL
2006-09-22 07:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋