i am in true love with a girl but according to her we are jus best friends.. she has another boyfriend whom she loves.. but she is starting to hate him cause that guy hates me a lot.. i need her.. and if u guys answers are jus propse then jus forget cause if i propose then if she says no it will be odd for me to talk to her so pls help give me some idea..
2006-09-22 00:25:48 · 20 answers · asked by nihal k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's a triangle...and a difficult one. The another boy is drifting from your girl because of you (that's good news). Your girl says that you two are just friends (!). And you won't propose her because her no will devastate you, and she is bound to say no because she has to prove to the other boy that you two are just friends.
You and the girl both are in a tricky situation, where there is not much to gain. Still, there is one good option, be with the girl you love, be there for her in the time of need. If she drifts away from the other man...she'll come to you. But don't haste...because it'll prove that you are the one who has spoiled their relation.
2006-09-22 00:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she tells u that she loves her bfreind,chances are she does.by u tryin to move in on another mans woman,well apart from that makin u a snake in the grass,my guess is that sooner or later the bfreind will beat u severely(i would if u were after my girl) and u will lose her respect,cos u can"t trust a snake.so if u are decent,look for anothergirl,and leave the couple to their own.u sound young,so with that u will find TRUE LOVE plenty more times in the future.And if u want to grow up being respected,dont be fallin for someone elses girl.oh yeah,there is a difference between love and infactuation,love is based on trust and respect,lust is based on attraction.anycase sounds like the girl is playin some sorta game with u and her bfreind at least if u get her u will know what u are in for.so i guess that no matter if u get her or not,your gunna get hurt.sorry pal.
2006-09-22 08:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to make an *** out of yourself. She told u she just wants to be friends, ont push this. U dont need her...u need to eat, u need to sleep and u need to let whatever goes in come out. U just want her. Its not easy..rejection sucks, but u can be supportive. The reason her bf doesnt like u is becoz u like her and he can tell. Why would anyone tell you to propose? Thats just cruel..just refrase what u said about she having another bf...she has a bf and she loves him....if you really love her, I mean if this is really true love then u would want her to be happy, even if that means with someone else but u.
That is the definition of true love. Caring so much for someone that u just want them to be happy even if that means hurting yourself in the process. You guys can still be friends unless u want to throw your last resort down the drain.
2006-09-22 07:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon the age of this gal.. If she is younger.. Find a gal that is super HOT! And make her jelous. Make her see that you are what she wants. Don't actually do anything with the other gal. Make a few public apperances with the hot lady, when your love is around. She'll either get discusted, or super jelous!
2006-09-22 07:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants u like friend then try to put aside u re true feelings. friendship and love are to close and sometimes they cant be separated cause love is a sentiment that u always find in a friendship. my best friend was in love with me and he did the big mistake to try to look and act like the guys i ve dated ! that was terrible, it almost destroyed our friendship . try to be your self and don t rush things. she probably wants u to play the friend part which in my opinion is more important than romance and a lot more difficult .
2006-09-22 07:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by fake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to propose to her. You just have to tell her how you really feel and I'm sure she'll understand. Love is all about risk. If you love someone, you must do anything and everything. you can't win something if you don't take a risk. now go and tell her ok?
2006-09-22 07:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by mudface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b a frnd now.When she will want 2 b in a relation like love with u she will express some symptoms.
2006-09-22 07:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shaily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son, be a friend to her 1st by being putting yourself into life priorities and spend good amount of time with your family and friends. don't let yourself being too occupied with her, give her breather. and this will help u to spend a better chance as she needs a lot of space between u and him. but never ever back stab him as this is immoral. will pray for u all. best wishes.
2006-09-22 07:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her into loving you..that will just make her hate you. Just be friends for now and maybe later on, she will realize that she likes you.
2006-09-22 07:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you give her some gitfs to show that you love her the most. and u can do one more thing just strat ignoring her for some days so that could realise your importance in her life.
2006-09-23 01:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋