I found out that I'm preg.. I don't know what to do?! Cause My bf want me to abortion! So we have a son which he is 1 year old! So now he want me to abortion because of he cannot afford that support! I dont know what to do? Should I stay w him since what he said likely that way!
2006-09-22 00:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by Shawna Weathers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't have an abortion if you do not want one. I don't understand how you could have allowed yourself to get pregnant again. Why were you not using birth control?
I can certainly understand your boyfriend being upset. Both of you should be upset.
There are places to go for help if you cannot afford it. Don't have an abortion unless you know for sure you want one and can live with it afterward.
Please use birth control when this crisis is over. It is just foolish and immature not to.
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2006-09-22 00:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think for a few hrs and if u really can support both ur children u can carry on. U cant dump ur bf now. either way u need his help. u can go for abortion safely. If u want another u can have later in your life
2006-09-22 00:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by V R G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the baby, then keep it. Don't let him talk you into it. If you don't, you guys will split up due to the resentment you'll carry for him forcing you to kill your child. It is his choice if he wants to stay or not. Just tell him (if you want to keep it), "I'm not having an abortion. If you want to stay, that's great. If not, it's your choice. Either way, you're going to have another baby and I'd like it if you just try to get use to the idea." Don't push him to accept it right away. That's why we're given 9 months. So we can get use to the idea and prepare accordingly. Good luck.
2006-09-22 00:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who's pregnant, it's your decision. Just know that in the end, you're the one who will be stuck with raising your kids alone, as it will be very easy for him to ditch his part of the responsibility. But if you are against abortion, you should let nobody pressure you into having one, because you will be the one living with the guilt afterwards. Only have an abortion if you're sure you can find peace with that decision.
2006-09-22 00:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok- you obviously don't live with this jag off or he wouldn't be paying child support! What were you thinking? Not only is he already NOT ready for commitment,he's definitely not ready to be a dad again! Have you not heard of birth control? You need to set some standards for yourself little girl.
2006-09-22 00:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by piowine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the doctor if possible than do abortion otherwise give birth the baby and tell ur bf than he must have to take responsibility of the chield.
2006-09-22 00:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not abort based on this mans inability to support you and his children. You need to get a job.
Pray....
2006-09-22 00:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU want? Don't let some bf decide what YOU do with your life. And quit getting pregnant by a bf......
2006-09-22 00:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately it is your choice, there is always adoption.
When u have made your choice and the pregnancy is over go to your clinic and get some contraceptives. Its free.
2006-09-22 00:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His reason is strong though!y dont you talk it over again?you could always set the baby up for adoption though
2006-09-22 00:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋