About 2 years ago, my best friend fell out with me, it really hurt me at the time, as I hadn't done anything wrong. Anyway, I am moving house, 200 miles away in fact, should I send her one of those "change of address" cards, or should I not bother?
2006-09-22 00:01:52 · 36 answers · asked by MissEssex 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why would you want to stay in contact with someone who obviously doesn't want to be friends with you anymore? she hasn't tried to make it up to you in the 2 years since you fell out, what does this person have to do for you to get the hint that she doesn't like you?
2006-09-22 01:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Summer Rain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is a relationship you would like to one day repair then I would tell her you are moving. This would set the ground work that you still care and think about her and perhaps she will feel differently. I would also include a phone number she could reach you. I would not send an impersonal change of address card, but a short simple note telling here you are moving and you wanted her to know that.
If you do not want to repair the relationship then just move on with your life. Good luck.
2006-09-22 00:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Mojo Risin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must still like her to be your friend, but however 2 years is a long time , so best forget really and carry on with your new life 200 miles away . so my answer is NO don't send her a new address card.
2006-09-22 00:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by minty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you been in touch with her since you fell out of have you not? I have been in the same situation with my ex best friend but before I moved I tried sorting things out and she wasnt interested so i left it alone, if she did want to make things up after you had moved would she not have anybody she could get you address from? If you want to send her a change of address then do so but if she dosen't want to contact you then move on. good luck.
2006-09-22 00:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would yes !
Me and one of my friends fell out over 18 months ago didn't speak a word at all to each other passing in the street. Then she moved back upto Scotland with her family but before she went she sent me a card to tell me that she was going now she's gonna come down once a month for a visit ! so in a way its made us make up! Go for it !
2006-09-22 00:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by stan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as she was your BESTfriend, I think you should.
Most of all, since you say that you falling out was no fault of yours, I don't see why you shouldn't. Who knows? Maybe she's realised that it's about time she made up with you (it's been 2 years afterall), and looking for an opportunity to do so, this may open the doors for your friendship yet again.
On the contrary, if you don't hear from her, you're not losing anything: you were only being civil. It's her loss :)
2006-09-22 00:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's her who fell out with you...so no i would not tell her...make a new life with new friends where you going to live...if you say that you did nothing wrong...why should you have to make the first move...if you miss her so much, then yes send her a letter once you have moved and let her take it from there, if she dont reply then she's not a friend...moving house is stressful enough, get you move over with first then contact her, but in my opinion i would not bother, you'll meet new friends once you are settled in....good luck with your move, and be happy
2006-09-22 01:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she hurt you and hasn't been back in contact, then why bother. Personally, i wouldn't. If you think that she might get a shock when she finds out you've gone, and you would like to hear from her, then give your address to a mutual friend where you know she could find your details if she wanted to. Otherwise, just let it be. Somethings just aren't meant to be, including friendships
2006-09-22 01:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would - she was once a good friend and one day she may want to be your friend again. It hurt at the time, but you are probably over it now - and a good way to show that is to let her know that you are moving.
No matter what has happened in the past, it is sad to loose friends completely.
2006-09-22 00:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are moving, at least that way she can contact you if she wants to even though she could have done that already but this might be enough to persuade her to see you before you move, if it was me i would personally take the address round myself even if my friend didn't want to see me they know I have tried.
2006-09-22 00:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋