Ive been having an affair for 3 weeks now with a man, and its getting like my hubby same ole thing, how should i spice it up?
2006-09-21 23:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask him to bring a gril friend and invite your hubby to bring his wife, then party hardy
2006-09-22 00:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole reasoning behind an Affair is to stay away from the commitment of a relationship, sounds like you are getting too involved, and bored.
Ask your husband what he does to spice up his affairs, you may find that you and hubby have more in common than you think.
2006-09-22 07:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a dirty movie with your lover. It's a great way to enhance sexual communication. When you see it you can talk about it. You can let each other know your preferences or boundaries with ease as they come up in the film. It can help to spice up your sexual repertoire. Seeing other people being creative in bed can give any slow sex life some new ideas. It can help get both of you aroused. When you need that extra push the right adult film can do the trick in a few minutes, whereas foreplay alone may take to long. It can hep take away the feeling that you (or your partner) are a freak. Seeing other people do things can normalize sex for you and your partner. If she sees a fellow woman enjoying analingus, for example, she may not feel badly about wanting to explore it. Entertainment, value is a good enough reason all by it's self. So grab a movie and enjoy it with you lover.
2006-09-22 07:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up with your husband! You obviously like being with different people...Why not invite them to join you and your husband! That is spicy!! Why would you want to spice up an affair and not your marriage...An affair only spices up a marriage if BOTH of the spouses are involved!!!
2006-09-22 09:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you started this affair because it got boring with your hubby. Instead of asking how to spice up your sex life with your lover, perhaps you should be asking how to spice up your sex life with your hubby. Drop the lover all together!!
I highly suggest some marriage counseling to go with that.
Good Luck!
2006-09-22 07:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by my_lil_buttercups 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have an affair with another guy.
duh, affairs aren't suppose to get old...you don't spice up an affair. Learn the rules of the game before you play!
2006-09-22 07:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go togather in a beautiful place for dating and exchage yours ideas.
2006-09-22 07:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new fling. Being something different is what makes it exciteing.
2006-09-22 07:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by mystical_yankee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get both together for a wild night of fun
2006-09-22 07:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by marykuntfarts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice it up with your husband.
2006-09-22 08:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋