when you get married or got married????

Question

do you want or did you have a big or small wedding????

Answer 1

either way.... l'm not that fussed...

Answer 2

I had one small and one large.
Size does matter.
I say save the money for other things, like the baby and a house.
I had plenty of money the second time (large wedding) but I still think of the things I could have done with all that money it.
Find a nice place for family and friends eat drink and be marry but don't go overboard.
The most important part where I say splurge
is pictures. Do those right get the best guy out there.

Answer 3

Both were suppose to be small with imidiate family only, but I had several crashers.
My first wedding was suppose to be about 12 but her clan flowed out of the hills and I had about 50. Darn hilljacks. The property value never did go back up after that dark day.
My second wedding had about 15 and 2 of those were friends. The reception had over a hundred.

Answer 4

When I get married, I want a huge wedding. Simply because I believe that people should only get married once, and it might as well be something spectacular, even if the secretary starts flirting with your husband, and he says it's nothing but he always smells like her perfume when he comes home and he never tells you how beautiful you are after you've carried two of his children and have put up with his "i'm staying late at the office" bull crap for three years and you've made the decision to get a divorce after the third baby is born and little amy graduates from 8th grade so that the kids will understand that sometimes mommies and daddies don't love each other anymore but they will always love their children because they are little angels sent to them from God....Oh sorry I had a flash foward lol

Answer 5

I had a huge wedding as I didn't know when I would be back home,so l wanted everyone I knew to be there,just as well l did,as 2 days after my wedding,I went to Ireland with my Irish husband for nearly 14 years.

Answer 6

i would want a smallish wedding but full of high networth and closest peeps only... unfortunately in my culture there is no such thing coz u leave out an aunt from your mother's granny's step sister's niece's cousin's brother - then u are in big trouble and half the clan can boycott your wedding and then the elders will insist on stopping the proceedings until you formally go and invite them to the wedding... ah yah... why do i have to beg some old fossil i've never seen in my life to come to MY wedding..

Answer 7

A small wedding.
Everything for under $500 ...including the reception!
Why spend loads of money on a ceremony which only lasts 15 min. ??
Much better to spend it on the honeymoon!

Answer 8

Not married yet...no plans for the future yet.... I guess I want a small wedding....eventually

Answer 9

I'm getting married in March - it was always my dream to get married barefoot on the beach with flowers in my hair, and that's what I'm doing (I live in Australia, so I guess that helps).

We are still having a fair few guests, but keeping costs down with a big BBQ afterwards, DJ, etc - yay

Answer 10

Well I think most girls dream of having a fairly big wedding, but mine was nice and intimate, with my family(even my uncle who came up from Peru!) and close friends. My hubby and his dad put together all the food, and my mother-in-law and I made the boquets. I wouldn't have had it any other way.....except for the carpeting in our church, it was multicolored orange/yellow/brown leftover from the 70's!

Answer 11

i would have loved a small intimate wedding with the nearest and dearest there only max 50people, but marrying a european meant that i had 180 people at my wedding needless to say i wouldnt know half of them if i run them over......but it was a great night and i have no regrets....