i 'm a highschool student and i study in co-ed school....one years ago my mom introduced to one of her frnd's son[he was actually my childhood frnd but v lost contact becoz of the distance..]
he began sending me emails...and day by day v became gud frnds...but as he used tolive quite far away and also in other school...v never were so lucky to talk except phone or chat room....but v were very close to each other... none of us were ever late to come to chatroom... or none of us ever forgot to call at the end of the week... one day he proposed to me ... and things just changed from that day onward... v understood that this relationship is too heavy &complicated for us so we began to admit that v r not lovers but frnds....
but from that day, v never talk so freely...so carelessly like before..it seemed like those words were like mountains for us...
even now sometimes my frnd and i still get attracted to each other..i really want to get back my lost frnd...help me !!!!
2006-09-21 23:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You've got too much time on your hands girl.....do something constructive....
2006-09-21 23:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being with him could work out brilliantly for you. Would you have dated him if he didn't just suddenly propose to you?? If the answer is yes suggest this to him, but make sure you take it slow. If you wouldn't have said yes just ignore the awkward moments and power through them by changing the subject. eventuall you may start getting back the old friend you havent lost but temporarily misplaced!!
hope this was helpful
2006-09-21 23:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by nathanhug2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u both just fell more for each other,and maybe one of us thinks it could work out..and that what u said sounds a little like he is hurt...i think u should ask him straight what wrong is,and the thoughts u had lately because of this situation!!i think thats the best u can do
2006-09-21 23:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever u speak to him u just keep in ur mind that u r in love with someother guy and now u r just speaking to ur friend....so that u wont have much troubles while talkin.
2006-09-22 00:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by me_who2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he stop being ur friend? did u say no? or what !!! thats good that yall got back in touch but its not good that yall arent friends anymore
2006-09-21 23:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just listen to u inner conscience.what it is saying and so do accordingly but one thing don't procastinate what it is saying.
2006-09-21 23:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by tasleem arif 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something do change, something do not.keep in touch with him.maybe it takes time.
2006-09-21 23:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Menn00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U m...
Just talk with him wiiiiiiiiiisely /./.
2006-09-21 23:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him,' why?' and asked him to answer honestly
may be he is so busy....
2006-09-21 23:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by zahidah z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋