My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, our sex life is great - but things are becoming routine and it turns me off completely.I'm so scared to tell him I dont want to hurt his feelings, seeing that it's quite a tricky situation.
2006-09-21 23:34:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there's no need to tell him anything.....mix it up yourself and do things differently....maybe once he feels that your into a change he will do the same.....spice it up girlfriend and take control
2006-09-21 23:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say...Honey, I would like to try a few differ ant things...maybe role playing,lubricants,lotions..massages...differant positions...and kind go on the line of just somethings you read in Cosmo..or thought would be interesting..You don't have to come right out and say "OUR SEX LIFE IS BORING" Just kinda do it in a round about way..take the lead girl...!! He will never know because up to this point he thinks if he keeps doing the same things he has to be doing something right for 7 years..so just talk to him..They need to know when our needs change..Good luck sweetie!
2006-09-21 23:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the other night I was timing our sex and it seems you were 30 seconds off your normal mark is something bothering you? That'll shake him up tell him you love making love to him it just bothers you when he changes his patterns I can promise you won't know whats coming next. If your guy is sensitive you might diregard this I don't handle emotional male issues well. Good luck
2006-09-21 23:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok properly this has worked for me interior the previous, and with any luck i will bypass on my secret to you. ok so i keep in mind that you dont opt to embarras your self with some thing severe, and sex is important for a relationship. per chance its him who may sense like he doesnt fulfill you sufficient..? and he doesnt opt to have too a lot sex incase you may change into drained of his sex.. there is all kinds of explinations for this disaster, none the a lot less all kinds of remedies too! =) So the following must be my steps. a million. bypass out and purchase some truly horny undies, in case you dont opt to spend money then positioned on your sexiest undies only for starters. 2. put in a movie, some thing romantic, if he doesnt like romantics some thing that he will celebrate with. 3. Make the scene slightly more advantageous romantic, likely candles lit..per chance incense. 4. As you 2 are cuddling, && gazing the action picture commence touching him and rubbing him in his well-known spots. bite his neck slightly, kiss him, make him desire you. Theres no longer some thing more advantageous a guy needs than what he cant have, so like i stated tease him make him truly desire you. Be as horny as you could, undergo in ideas no longer S L U T T Y, merely horny. 5. once hes interior the mood, then do away along with your outfits and he will see the appropriate undies. that ought to turn him on fantastically if its new. ;) 6. Make him desire you more advantageous than some thing and once you've hooked the bait, upward push up and walk away. walk to the mattress room and look ahead to him to save on with.. If he doesnt save on with then walk back accessible and declare whats yours!! undergo in ideas have relaxing with it. Dont take it too heavily. merely loosen up and enjoy! more advantageous concepts: you should properly be slightly more advantageous playful with him. per chance wrestling or some thing no longer over the area. Talka little more advantageous grimy to him, ask him if he needs to take a bath with you. educate distinct pastime and finally you should have a sturdy relationship with some spicey sex. =) solid luck i am hoping this helped.
2016-11-23 14:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, this is why we are supposed to marry first, then fornicate.
Why don't you suggest some games you both might enjoy? See if the old boar has some goat left in him.
2006-09-21 23:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all reletionships turn into routine sooner or later. there is no need to tell him anything, just maybe start yourself doing smth different. some surprises and like this. don't wait him to start. and if i were u i wouldn't tell him - it will really hurt his feelings
2006-09-21 23:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that what happens after 7 years
2006-09-21 23:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a subscription to an advice type magazine like Maxim or penthouse.
2006-09-21 23:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bear Naked 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you try something new or even go someplace different to jumpstart the engines again.
2006-09-21 23:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start knitting, reading or doing a crossword puzzle during lovemaking and he might take the hint. :-)
2006-09-22 00:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋