she has not been out for a few months , she has been too busy looking after me since i got laid off, is it ok to let her go out if she cooks my tea first, she has already cleaned up ,she is not the brightest girl , so she normally needs me with her , just in case she gets stuck , because she is naive in a nice sort of way that girls are, and i dont want anything to happen to her , you never know who might take advantage of her female gullibilty,she says that if she goes out , then who is going to look after me , but i told her to have a one off occassion ,your help would be thanked
2006-09-21 22:37:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i was thinking of letting her go fishing, but i see a whole load of women have already took her bait
2006-09-21 23:12:35 · update #1
I reckon you should talk her into getting two french maids (actually, two english girls in the uniform!) then you'd have one to look after you and one to look after her!
2006-09-21 23:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her go. She needs a break. Staying couped up in the house all day long is most likely driving her crazy.
Are you not a big boy who can take care of yourself? After all you are not sick, you are only out of work. Go find a job and while you are doing that let her go and do some thing she wants to do. What's wrong with her going window shopping with a budget in mind if she buys some clothes or going to a coffee shop? Let her join a club that is helping the poor or some other social group.
2006-09-22 05:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. My views on this subject would be yes it's okay every once in awhile, and the reason why, is your married and you should trust her. You quoted, "Is it ok to let her go out"? I guess I don't like the word LET. I also believe that she doesn't need you with her, she is a grown adult and if you thought she did really need you, it is a better reason for her to get out, to be strong and secure. She knows right from wrong for someone to take advantage of her. I hope this helps a little bit. Good Luck.
2006-09-22 05:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by blonndilox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, no. Don't let her go out by herself. Instead, get dressed up in drag (long, curly, red-haired wig, fake boobs, tight minidress, spike-heeled boots--the works) and take her out for ladies' night to see male strippers who take it all off. Get your wife all liquored up then put some money in the guys' g-strings before they take 'em off and ask them to make out with you and your wife. I'm sure she'll have a great time.
2006-09-22 06:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Two Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone you trust to watch out for her! My ex never let me go out. He thought the same thing! It's good that you're gona let her. Do you have a sister that could go with her?
2006-09-22 05:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is if there is trust there she shouldnt even have to ask your permition man ive been with my husband for 17 yrs n he knows if i want to go out with the girls i will give him notice that i will be going out n he gets his own dinner weekends anyhow its my time off too i married him with the full understanding u own my private parts n heart n thats it u dont own me as a person and vise versa
2006-09-22 05:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by gemstone_1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to go out with her best friend...she does have friends doesn't she??? Or get her to go our with someone you trust.
Unless all this hoohah is due to your insecurity then you need to re-think. Normally, woman will put their man first and takes care of them and excuses that she is afraid and needed you by her side all the time is simply not to let you feel insecure.
2006-09-22 05:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Angel's Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where she is going..why don't you offer to go with her .
Is she your nurse or your wife?
sounds like a weird relationship to me,are you her partner? or her boss ?
Everyone needs time to themselves,but i think you should spend some time with her doing things also,and not just her taking care of you,she is not your housekeeper..
your relationship sounds weird to me,unless your old and a cripple .
2006-09-22 05:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For god's sake let her go out.. and who told you that girls are naive.. not all of them! Give her some freedom and she will be happy..
2006-09-22 05:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Gloomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is as how you described her, then you need to find someone you really trust to go out with her, maybe her sister or other relatives or lady friends. Someone that she will enjoy to be with.
2006-09-22 05:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by GlamLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋