stole lots of money from me while i was asleep, i was devestated and she kept telling me that she will find him and make him pay, however few month went by and she has done nothing about it, yesterday i found out that she is hangs around with him and they are friends again, i totally freaked out and told her to leave my house right away, now i hear that they are actualy going out together, i am so hurt and can't handle that pain anymore, any ideas?
2006-09-21 22:28:38 · 12 answers · asked by mich l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing you can do, just sit back and watch....
2006-09-21 22:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Teaching her a lesson will not solve anything telling the police will even cause more problem cos the daughter might end up stop talking to you and i guess no one want to loss any child cos their boyfriend stole from them. Well what i did say you do is call them both make him tell you why he did what he did and not asking if he can have the money ( which is not meant to as you are not his Mother) then ask him if he still have the money if yes take it and if NO ( which i know it will be) lets go of it but let your daughter know that you are disappointed in her but can still give her another chance to be good.
2006-09-22 05:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by jeje 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you are single father. Even if she stole the money. What you can do no proof anyway. What can be stolen more ?
You can kick her out but is not gonna make any better for her - and you can loose her forever.
The reality are unknown. My suggestion is take a time
and try to help her be for her. But don't give her any unnecessary money. You know she made mistake how she is gonna deal with reality the future is going show.
2006-09-22 05:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holding on to that kind of pain only hurts you. as they always say forgivness isn't for the other person its actually for u and i am a witness of that being true. let it go so u can feel better as u can see its not hurting your daughter or her new found relationship its only hurting you. maybe u need to get the f**k it syndrome. whenever u think about it just say f**k it and keep smiling. don't let someone else stop u from being happy. they're smiling and you're frowning hell no u smile too
2006-09-22 05:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue your Daughter and her boyfriend. No I not joking and I am not talking about Jerry Springer. I think you need to teach her a lesson in what she did was wrong. By just taking her to court the message might get through to her.
You might also get your money back.
2006-09-22 05:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about that....that has to be stressful...you didn't say how old your daughter is, assuming of legal age, maybe you threw her out of the house, out of momentary anger?...I can imagine how ticked off and dissapointed you must be, but hate to say this, either he is just a bum, or perhaps drugs are involved...No one wants their child to make bad choices, they are our children and we love them, and that is why it hurts....You don't have a whole lot of choices if she is of legal age, you can't force her to not see this boy...pushing the subject can push her more to him...when your young, your a bit dumb, and have to learn by mistakes some times I'm afraid....doesn't help you feel any better I know, but you may just have to ride it out, and....you have to also protect what is yours also....she wants to be with him, get your house key back or change the locks....IF he/she is using drugs, he probably isn't holding a decent job, and the funds will have to come from somewhere correct???....really sorry about your situation.......
2006-09-22 05:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that hurts a lot but wait it out give it time she will find out the hard way love is blinding her YOU HANG IN GOOD LUCK
2006-09-22 05:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur dau is no better than that guy
just forget it.
relatives do, friends do, here ur own child has done,
nothing to worry.
life is like that.
just take it easy- it will cool u.
2006-09-22 05:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a hit man to kick his a zz and collect the money
2006-09-22 05:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell? wy not report to the police?
2006-09-22 06:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋