my boyfriend keeps looking at girls on the web?

Question

its usually the fhm website hes on it alot it makes me feel insecure about my looks am i right or am i bein silly

Answer 1

I used to have those magazines all the time because they have some very interesting as well as funny stuff to read. I not going to lie and say i didn't look at the girls but to me a girl that can show me true and unconditional love is the most beautiful girl in the world. I would not have traded my girl for all the girls in those magazines. Your boy probably feels the same way. If he had a choice between you and any of those girls, It would be your hand he'd be holding. So don't trip over him too much. next time hes on one of those sites give him a kiss on the cheek to remind him that those girls couldn't love him like you can

Answer 2

nah hon - fhm and these kinda sites are fine - all men ogle women - particularly scantily clad ones!
You'd have cause to complain if he was looking at say, pictures of girls on answers or something - where he could actually be in a position to take things further with these ladies - but lets face it - the chances of him getting involved with an FHM babe - about a million to one!
I wouldnt worry in the slightest -your looks have nothing to do with this - its just him being a man!

Answer 3

I wouldn't worry too much about it. As I've seen some other answers, some men are like that - I'm engaged and I do that too. It's just our nature to do that. Some women also look at other men. As long as he doesn't do anything more than look, you shouldn't get too worried. Now, if you've had reason to suspect him of something in the past, then I might be a little worried. Perhaps he's just trying to get some ideas as to how to make the relationship better than it already is??

Answer 4

You are not only being silly but like lots of women you are being downright hypocritical as well because it is a scientifically proven fact that women, all women habitually look at men's bums and crotch area whenever they are in a social situation.

The difference is that men with their open honest attitudes make no secret of the fact they look. Women on the other hand look in a more subtle and sneaky way.

Answer 5

Start pointing out gorgeous men on the street and see how he reacts. If he doesn't react then he obviously feels there is no harm in looking and you can relax.

If you are a little low on self esteem, why not have a portrait session done and spice up some pictures of yourself for him to look at in privacy of course. Do not do anything that you would not be happy for others to see too. Just seeing how sexy you can look yourself can be a huge moral booster.

Answer 6

does he...
well i dont think that is nothing wrong with that.i personally prefer to watch them lively in the streets shops...everywhere beauty is to be seem and admired at ones concepts and believes.
u cant look at the same body or person for the rest of ur life .if so stay inside ur house for the next whole year only with ur boyfriend and then tell ur conclusions...
i personally believe that u have a time in a day in a street ,shop bus metro...who knows ...but a time that u watch someone no matter if man or a woman and u think for urself hes cute or shes cute...u can be in love with ur boyfriend forever and him to u for the rest of ur life's but u cant mess up with ur sexual instincts and fantasy's by hidden them inside ur brains u only get frustrations and complexes so i advise u to free all ur fears and love ur boyfriend for what he is ...AM sure he will reply u back.
where is insecure and fear theres not a relation.
take him to bed and prove urself that u r better than anything he sees.

Answer 7

Darlin, every girl would feel the same and if they say they wouldnt they are a lier. IT might not be to the same degree of insecurity, but everyone is. FACT. Just do the same and see how he likes it. If he knows it makes you feel insecure, and he keeps on doing it, then that means, he is the one that is insecure so he tries to make you feel bad to help him feel like the one incontrol. TRUST ME. go on like its cool, he does, so that means too, that you can look at men.!! oh yeah!! **)

Answer 8

DONT WORRY AT ALL DEAR!!!!!

Boys do these things, watching porn, movies, other girls dopesnot mean that he doesnt care for you or he wants you to change your looks and all.

He just do that without any intention but I know you did not like it.


Do one thing,,,,,,go on a romantic date and hold his hands tell him that you love him from the bottom of your heart and then ask him if he wants something else in you.

Then ask him not to do these kind of things like watching other girls and all as it hurts you. Tell him by looking into his eyes.

He will stop doing it and you will see respect in your relation too. Enjoy :)

Answer 9

do you get a tickle of lust when you look at the guys on the gillette adverts, brad pitt or beckham or any of the other studs you see on tv and magazines. you like loooking at them right? well multiply that liking you have of looking at them by a couple of hundred, thats the kind of pull that saucy pictures have on every guy, and honestly blokes don't look at the pictures to compare or think wow I wish I was with her its just pure lustful ogling. Seeing your girlfreind naked and making love is ten times the thrill he will get from these pictures , so don't worry there is no comparison or competition.

Answer 10

My boyfriend does that too. But i let him look, simply because he's a man and if i try to stop him, then he's gonna do it behind my back. So as long as these girls stay on the internet, and do not get involved in your relationship, i think all is fair.