plzz help.. getting busy doesnt work for me..and other friends are there but i keep on thinking about him because if excess of his memories
2006-09-21 22:04:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He has been good to you is it not?
You like him too right?
Do your part right! Think about nice time you had. It is just, that for some reason HE is not available right?
He occupies your heart so why do you want to forget him if that place is secured for him?
2006-09-21 22:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ofcourse it is very difficult to forget the person who you really love. You cannot concentrate on any work also. But avoid getting into another relation as far as possible as it will only increase your tensions in future as there are all the possibilities that things will go wrong again. It is always the females being more sentimental get hurt also more. Also you never know what happens in the mind of your partner any time.
Develop any good hobby like reading, attending music classes or any other time consuming but encouraging activity. Slowly but firmly you will get over his memories.
Hope you get the strength to forget him!!
2006-09-22 06:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by Saheli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is, but you are on the losing end of this deal.
There are two ways to deal with this:
1. Wallow in the doldrums with his memories
2. Get on with your life.
Remember the saying, when a door closes, another one opens.
who knows, someone better is waiting in the wings, if not right in front of you already...
Life is short. Live it doing the stuff you want to do and stop dwelling on the past.
2006-09-22 05:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by camilledg127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new activities that involve being around people you don't know. Try avoiding those places, songs, people, situations that remind you of him for a while... Try going to places you haven't been before and build some new nice memories that do not involve him. This should help until you find another guy to share new memories with.
2006-09-22 06:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by marius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See this is the irony of our life , when some one / dear one is with us , we just take things easy and don't give due respect or care , when they move away from our site , we run behind our shadow to just for a glimpse . Yes it is very difficult to forget and washed away our sweet memories . And this the fate .
2006-09-22 05:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard I can understand. But life goes at its speed doesnt stop for anybody. So comeon live life,forget him get as busy as possible in different activities. All the best to you.
2006-09-22 05:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by santra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb that person is'nt worth it.first step towards forgetting him is to stop comparing him with your friends.Make a deliberate effort to make new friends.Search for some new characteristics in your new friends which was absent in your ex Mayb then you will find it easier
2006-09-22 05:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by money money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is toughest,,it takes minutes to have crush on someone, an hour to love someone..but it takes lifetime to forget someone..but the brightest future will always be based on forgotten past, you can't go on well in life, until you let go of your past faliures and heartaches......i know it's very hard..but stay in memories..
2006-09-22 11:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgetting someone you love is harder, try 15 years on and I still think of her. Im not obsessive or a stalker. I just think of what could have been or what should have been. It still hurts me and will always.
2006-09-22 05:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by hoarfen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take a long time get a pet i did thy keep you going she rides no my Harley with me it will be vary hard the pet thing helped me maybe you to or a cat them you can love and thy can love you back and never hurt you good luck to you still looking but the pet thing works
2006-09-22 05:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋