is it normal for an ex hubsand or ex wife to help each other out in hard times , example if one is out of a job and the other one helps out by making sure they got food to eat and cleaning supplies in the house til the unemployment check gets there?
2006-09-21 21:37:08 · 24 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If what you are saying is true then I think this is so very nice. And refreshingly so! The world could use more of this.
There is nothing ever wrong or abnormal about two people sincerely helping each other. Out of all the negativity a glimmer of true light emerges. I'm somewhat taken aback. Kind of makes things look a little less bleak, the future a little more hopeful. You've reaffirmed my faith in the human race. And for that I can't thank you enough!
2006-09-21 22:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal! 2 People shared everything they had for a time and when 2 people divorce it doesn't mean that they hate each other and that you can't help that person when in need!!!
So I actually think it is great that people can be friends after a divorce!!!
God bless!
2006-09-22 05:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is quite normal. You just cannot start to hate someone who played such an important part in your life and dismiss him/her completely. You can stop loving the person but you cannot stop caring about another human being.
Would you help a stranded dog, give him food and maybe shelter if need be? Then why not helping your ex?
2006-09-22 05:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My heart simply melts to read that. Thank you. Nowadays divorce is such a bitter hateful experience that to find a couple who can still be caring towards each other is so uplifting. This is how people should act towards each other, not only ex's, but all people
2006-09-22 04:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they are very lucky this may happen. In too many divorces the only thing that comes between the man and woman is the child support check.
2006-09-22 05:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think you're putting too much attention on the husband and wife relationship. It's over. Leave it be.
As a fren, you should. I mean you give alms to beggars too right?
Just do a good deed, forget the relationship issue and focus on doing the right thing.
2006-09-22 04:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's nice to see ex-es getting along. Plenty of divorced couples get along nicely. But unfortunately you hear more from the bad examples.
2006-09-22 04:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it isn't, it should be. Look; It's the right thing for a man or woman to do, regardless of the relationship. Help her out -- I did, and I never regretted a bit of it, and we don't like each other.---Rat
2006-09-22 04:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes of course it is. People fall out of love but they will always care for someone who has been a major part of their life. In my book it is perfectly normal and nice to hear about.....
2006-09-22 04:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just because they are no longer married doesn't mean they still dont care about each other. Its very normal for this to happen.
2006-09-22 04:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋