2006-09-21 21:24:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him.
2006-09-21 22:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!
ON A MORE (SOMETIMES) REAL NOTE, TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH OR SECURE ENOUGH IN THEMSELVES OR THEIR REALTIONSHIPS TO DO ANYTHING BUT BLAME THE OTHER PERSON.
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF AS WE ALL KNOW IS NOT THE EASIEST THING IN THE WORLD TO DO ESPECAILLY WHEN YOU F*&^ UP. I AM NOT,I N ANY WAY , JUSTIFYING HIS ACTIONS CAUSE I THINK THAT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR ONES SELF AND ACTIONS IS THE ONLY THING TO DO AND IS WHAT HELPS YOU TO GROW UP.
I HAVE HAD THE SAME PROBLEM IN REALTIONSHIPS...UNTIL I REALIZED THAT I WAS SOMEWHAT AT FAULT FOR THEIR LYING AND TURNING THE TABLES ON ME. HOW? BECAUSE I "SET THE BAR" IN ACCEPTING AND FORGIVING THAT B.S THE FIRST TIME.
TALK TO HIM. HONESTY REALLY IS THE POLICY...THE WORST PART OF A LIE IS THAT IT WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU AND NOTHING HURTS WORSE THAN THE TRUTH THAN FINDING IT OUT ON THE BACKSIDE OF A LIE.
GOOD LUCK...YOU'LL NEED IT!
A KINDERED SPIRIT
2006-09-21 22:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by cowboysminxxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you do is tell the guy that you arn't going to put up with such a dysfunctional relationship. Then you break up with him and get control of your life back. Be strong and find a guy who is easier to get along with. If you keep taking him back, then it is time to ask yourself why you keep doing this. Don't you deserve more?
We can't be with everyone we love. We as women need to know what sort of man we need and don't let our hearts get stolen by guys that lie and cheat. There are good guys out there.
2006-09-21 21:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop fighting. It won't get you anywhere. You will never have a sense of security with a person who lies. If you think there is a chance of him changing his ways, then talk it out with him. If not, leave him.
2006-09-21 21:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
boys have a great way of minipulating situations... and at the end of the ordeal you come out feeling like it is your fault... in turn this puts your confidence down and makes you feel like rubbish so if i were you i would try and talk it out explain what you think and feel like and if you cannot fizzle the situation out i think its time to re access the relationship as it may be that he will never compromise in any argument and therefore he has proven to be stubborn i think that is the main issue mhe is being stubborn in admitting he is wrong address the situattion in this way if you want to sort it out good luck
2006-09-21 21:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by kazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good u noticed that before u married. it just shows u what kind of a person he is, a lier and will blame u for things u didnt do. if u are prepared to spend the rest of your life with that kind of a life, hang on. if u are not, move on. the decision is ENTIRELY up to you.
2006-09-21 21:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had a ex-husband like that , when he did something wrong he would blame me i tried talking to him about it but it didn't work ,sounds like this guy is not mature enough to take responsibility for his actions, he's probably mad because you busted him,i suppose it is possible for him to change but first he has to realize something is wrong, do what you think is best good luck girl, you stay w/him you will need it.
2006-09-22 03:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, why waste your time with an emotionally retarded moron when there are so many great people in this world? Open your eyes - you are the only person responsible for this behavior as you put up with it/let it happen.
2006-09-21 21:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rock On I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb and don't look back. He's yesterday's garbage-dump him! Don't wait one second longer. He's an abusive psycho that you need to get far away from-and fast!
2006-09-21 21:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you dun have honesty in your relationship. Then your bf doesn't have responsibility... Last you both can't get along. Sigh... bad news right girl?
2006-09-21 22:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boy friend is not sincere with you. It seems that he loves yourbody but does not spiritually. It is better for you to get rid of him, otherwise he will desert your life.
2006-09-21 21:34:09 · answer #11 · answered by ali a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋