Im 19 and for the past 2 yrs the best thing goin 4 me has been my looks, i use them all the time 2 get stuff from men, like money and gifts, but I keep worrying 24/7 that something is going to happen to me and im going to lose my looks before my time, like i'll get cancer and lose my awesome rack, or get in a fire and have it ruin my pretty face and skin, it drives me crazy!, how can I stop this thinking?
2006-09-21 20:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are vain, girl....
2006-09-21 21:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think ur biggest problem is thinking that ur looks are ur biggest asset im sure they are an amazing asset and i dont mean to boast but yes i too have been told i am very pretty. The thing is i know there is much more to me than that, although i sometimes feel if it wasnt for my looks id be treated differentely and my looks gives me confidence and give me opportunity to put on a "mask". Since people dont think bad things can happen to pretty people who seeem to be exuding confidence etc. However if u focus and think they are the best thing going for you of course ur going to be neurotic about them. People think pretty people have so much going for them but its so hard to find someone who genuinely likes u for you and isnt trying to just get u into bed or look at u as just an object. So just try to focus on u try to find out what other great assets you got and yeah remember looks DO fade whether we like it or not. Enjoy them while u got them and stop thinking about 2mrw and try to not use men no offence but u wouldnt likei ti if it was the other way round. Find inner balance gal and ull be fine, i know its easier said than done. I have friends who love me for me for my sense of humour, for my intelligence, compassion etc and now a boyfriend who I KNOW loves for my WHOLE self even my crappy flawed human nature type. He called me the whole package and trust me girlie once u found that no man, no money will ever even come close and being neurotic about ur looks will lessen. I am currently going thru a very stressful situation and have lost weight and generally look like complete crap but does he care??? nooo bcz he loves me that much he said even if i was a skeleton right now hed still wana be with me hold me and make me better... find ur inner peace and cheerish ur looks since we are lucky enough to have them...
2006-09-21 21:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by lazydazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's a serious question, you are narcissistic. You need to forget how you look and start putting meaning in your life. Do some volunteer work, possibly at a burn center so you can see how these unfortunate people handle their lives with dignity. The more you do for others, the more you will realize that looks are not important.
2006-09-21 21:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean and feel for you! I am so glad you are around to pick up my hand me downs and cast offs.
As for worrying about your looks, DON'T. Men are only interested in free sex and after a few beers, they couldn't give a hoot who or what they are with. They will buy you anything you want, give you anything you want and do anything you want for sex. Better yet, why not use you it to your advantage? Corner of 5th sound like a good place for you to be after hours!
2006-09-21 21:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by file_o_fax 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I do the same thing and it will catch up with you at some point so we should stop right? Nah ! h no girl, do your thing.
2006-09-21 21:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Apryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop thinking about it.
2006-09-21 21:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LIVE LIFE AND FORGET YOURSELF TRY DIFFERENT THINGS AND DO THINGS LIKE ACHIEVING ANY GOALS THAT YOU HAVE EVER WANTED LIKE BECOME A MODEL IF YOU ARE SO PRETTY AND START ACTING I WANT TO SEE YOU IN A MOVIE, LIKE NIKE SAID "JUST DO IT."
2006-09-21 21:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by PSGamer06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just forgot them!
2006-09-21 22:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your brain off....
2006-09-21 23:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
throw all of your mirror..and stop look at it!!
2006-09-21 21:07:21 · answer #10 · answered by JackScenes 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋