I have this guyfriend and ive told him most of my secrets ive known him for two years and a couple of days ago he told my friend he liked me and she told me what he said!!! and he said if i find out he is movin to lasvegas wit his dad i really dont want him to move but its just kinda weird being around him know and i dont like him so wat should i do???
2006-09-21 20:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pretend you don't know...and dont lead him on in any way
2006-09-21 20:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chris™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's such a close friend that you've told him all your secrets, but you don't like him? I suppose you mean, you don't fancy him as a boyfriend.
In my book, a man that you can be this comfortable with, is the man you want to marry. I know, you're young enough to want the romance, the sizzle when your eyes meet, all that stuff. Eventually you'll realise that feels great for a while, but it never really lasts - and then you may be glad that you didn't p**** off Mr Reliable.
On the other hand, if you're absolutely sure you could never feel that way about him, then it would be kinder to let him know. It will hurt, sure - but it's not doing him any good to hang around you, hoping that you'll like him one day, when he could be out there finding a woman who can love him.
2006-09-22 03:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From reading ur question, im assuming u and this guy are close buddies, but u dont see him in a romantic light. There is nothing at all wrong with that, in fact its gr8 that u have found someone good enuf to be called a REAL friend. however, i furter understand that u dont want him to move to las vegas. While i can understand ur feelings u also have to respect is decision to join his father in a new location. This doesnt mean that u have to lose touch. in fact thru sms and text msging u can keep in tuch easier and quicker than ever b4. At time in our lives we all are faced with decisons that are life changing and we ave to base our decision on how we feel and how we feel its going to improve out lives. he obviously feel that las vegas holds someting that e needs that ur current location cant offer. Is he wrong for looking out for himself ? Of course not and im sure u will agree that we all need and deserve the cance to explore and experience now things and places. My advice ? Let him go, but make sure u get fone number, address email addy or add him to a buddy list. Over time the distance will become less of an issue and ur friendship will continue to grow....good luck
2006-09-22 03:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends, its not gona b for long anyway. He is moving soon and the akwardness will be away.
Just keep on being friends like b4, as if u never heard the words coming out of her mouth.
2006-09-22 03:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything. Obviously he's not trying to make you uncomfortable, and just wants to spend time with you, even just as friends. I doubt he'd be so drastic as to just move to Las Vegas, but just in case, stick with not acting any different and just be friends.
2006-09-22 03:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot u might really grow to like him
2006-09-22 03:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋