my wife gets mad cause i have to work late... why? its not like she made me dinner or ever waits up for me... what the hell. i have to make money for food. how is that a reason to start an argument? i also help support her two other kids and our little girl.
2006-09-21 19:46:45 · 21 answers · asked by gilbert g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It may be a personal issue between both of you. That doesn't make your general statement here true.
2006-09-22 02:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a women's perspective, I believe she is feeling "neglected" by you. And she may also feel that she is doing all the "housework" and raising of the children alone, and feel resentment because of that. You provide for your family and you work hard, so you must come home exhausted and not give her the attention she needs in this relationship. So therefore when you come home she is angry and not about to comfort you, even though you have strong needs too. It's hard on any relationship, but I"d suggest making the time to make her feel special and very much desired, being more intimate like you did while you were dating. She will respond to this, and thus your relationship with her can heal. You shouldn't have to be continually stressed out by her anger. Find ways to get her to talk about her feelings and listen to what she wants and needs. And then your needs will be met once her's are met. A relationship takes a lot of work . . . good luck, Laura
2006-09-21 19:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We'd need the number of men and women contributing at that time to tell you. If the majority of users were women, that doesn't mean anything. Plus, it's a self-selecting sample - concievably people might use internet threads as a safe way to vent anger. I don't think there's any evidence women are more agumentative, it's more a preconception. It's certainly not one of the six sex differences that can actually be reliably found in any (suitably large) sample - so I'm going to say no, probably not.
2016-03-27 01:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Debra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just misses you and wants some quality time. Good for you for being a real man and taking care of business even if it's not yours. The world needs more men like you. Women have a bad habit of jumping into an argument over little things, the thing you gotta remember is that we get over the little things quickly and even tho we make a huge deal over nothing like thirty min after the argument we are going to be fine and forget about it.
2006-09-21 20:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cuz she didnt get married so she'd be alone all the time. Yes your job is important, but so is your family.. or at least it should be. She probably dont make dinner for you cuz you are always eating out with your work buddies or girlfriend. I'm sure she's feeding the kids dinner, ask her to put some leftovers in the fridge for when you come home and your family is asleep and you've missed out on your life. Maybe its time you cut back your hours or admit to your affair.
2006-09-21 20:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most times women are jealous that you are going to work and not spending time with them...Even though you bring the money home she still seeks emotional and physical needs and apparently she thinks they are not getting met...Spend as much time with her while your off work and if time at work give her a call on a break and tell her u miss her and ull be home soon.
2006-09-21 20:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by eternal_juggalettez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to answer because there are always different circumstances to each case and I don't know you but most women want their husband/boyfriend to go to bed with them. Also, we start arguments sometimes because we want that make-up sex because it's just a little rougher or she thinks your cheating on her. Then some women are just plain, old nags.
2006-09-21 19:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're afraid to start an argument over important things. It's easier to start with a stupid thing and then evolve into something serious and really important. I guess they do it to avoid men having an heart attack.
2006-09-22 03:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by R.C.P. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now is a good time to seek counsiling before it's to late. She's not taking care of you and you aren't taking care of her by staying at work. Hopefully you think of her other two children as your own and love them equally. It's hard when families blend on everyone. Good luck.
2006-09-21 19:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is stress it with 3 kids at home.
She works with 3 different minds and doing lots of stuff for them I hope)
You have your own stress I know but is different.
We woman change a lot remember we have every month our period
we get pregnant and sometimes hormone inbalance and then depression
ask her if she feel sad, or see beautiful things gray or ugly
or if she feels she is not worth it try to talk and understand her .
go with her to her primary doc and ask him if he suggest Prozac or paxil .
But mostly when she argue with you tell her this " honey I love you but I do not want to argue,When you calm down I be here to hear you ".
2006-09-21 19:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋