I currently live in California. Ive been here my whole life, and now my parents want to move to North Carolina. All my friends are here, my boyfriend. My life is here but they say they want to move because they think its better for us over there. Im only 18, my 2 brothers are in their 20's. I have no clue what to do. I want to stay. And if i do stay, i think i would have to live with someone temporarly till i get enough money with my bf to get an apartment. Should I stay or Should i go? Please share your opinions.
2006-09-21 19:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by KrZyBeE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you answered your own question...
if you where really ready to stay you would not be asking...
you would have already decided on your own...
18 is still young....
Go with your parents stay in contact with bf....
Get a job save money and if you feel the same after you've saved enough to get an apartment, move on back or have him move over...
It is not easy to survive on your own at 18 your not quite an adult as you would be at 21.you might night be able to rent an apartment with out a co-signer... good luck what ever you do be safe....
2006-09-21 20:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be wise to move with your parents and get into a good college. Take it from someone who mistakenly chose marriage over college. Now I struggle from day to day making ends meet. It's nice when you have a good job, make good money and can afford to do the things you'd like to do. It's even better when you don't have to rely on another person to survive. ie ... a boyfriend or husband. Marriage is wonderful but so is independence.
2006-09-22 02:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont you ask your brothers if they 1 2 stay in california, if they
agree and they start working then maybe three of you can rent a place. sorry not very sure on your family sititution. i can only advice you base on the above.
2006-09-22 02:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-22 02:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by ms_rar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 stay and get your own place...
2006-09-22 02:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH THEM AND TELL YOUR FRIENDS TO CONTACT YOU VIA E-MAIL.
STAY FOR A WHILE AND SEE WHAT THE FUTURE IS 4 U THERE AND REMEMBER YOU WILL MISS EVERYTHING BUT IS GOOD TO TAKE RISKS
2006-09-22 03:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋