my partner of just over 12 months, gets lots of txt messages from other woman...one of which he was working with up until a couple of weeks ago, one of these txt`s was sent to me by mistake a few months ago, it said " Hi There Sexy Lady, going to lunch early will see you tomorrow"...i confronted him about it and he said it was just in fun..and didnt think it was a big deal..now that this woman has left his work..i felt a lot better until the the other day..he got a txt from her saying that she was thinking about him and then he rang her.....then ther was two txt saying that yes he does miss her..
i am really lost i dont no what to do..i love this man more than anything, and he tells me that he loves me too...do you think he could cheat on me or not???
2006-09-21 19:29:15 · 12 answers · asked by AJJC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's not cheating.. he's definately thinking about it. Maybe not even with this girl, tho probably. If after 12 mos. he is abusing the relationship by carrying on with other women like this, he doesnt respect you as much as he should. Men are like dogs, they need trained. Either you arent taking the training process seriously and dont wanna step on his toes, maybe at the risk of the relationship ending. But.. if you love this guy.. you might have to squish his toes. Let him know that this is BS and wont be tolerated. If he loves you.. even nearly as much as you love him, then he will quit. he will tell this woman that their "friendship" is causing problems in his relationship. Orr, he's cheating.. or wants to and will choose his cell phone over you. Either way.. something will end but its better than dragging it out. With the texting, your feelings are hurt on a regular basis, in a break up.. it hurts all at once but it will be a relief cuz you he wont be disrespecting you.. constantly. You HAVE TO put an end to it one way or another, good luck.
2006-09-21 20:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by spurdom28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's flirting and actually admitting that he misses her, it shows that he has some sort of feeling for her. And it also means that she could be going after your partner. Set him off to the side and be truthful with him. Tell him flat out how it makes you feel, and let him know that if it progresses into something more, that you won't stick around for the ride. At the rate they are going, I'd say it's possible that he'd cheat. So take the upper hand before he does something to break your heart.
2006-09-22 02:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Maico 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is trouble. R u not a jealous person.
Tell him u dont like it and u want him to stop if he doesnt or u find out he is doing it behind your back then leave.
Is the attention from u not enough that he has to go and seek it elsewhere?
2006-09-22 02:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You red the txt messages i sent!!!
**** that wasnt supposed to happen
I am going to confess
i have had sex with him a lot
i am pregnant
i dont care that you are married but i love him and he loves me
he sed he is going to leev you soon
he have sex all the time
every day
Your so called 'partner' cant be shared
2006-09-22 02:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Selly-Silly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is playing both of you!
Bet you the first chance he gets too sleep with her he'll take it, even if the two of you are in a relationship!
Sorry!
Send him to me, i'll fix him 4 you!
2006-09-22 02:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you, ask him to stop. If he doesn't stop, then he doesn't love you. Flirting is a violation of your intimate relationship and trust. And if he doesn't respect that, does it matter if he is really cheating?
2006-09-22 02:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly why are you reading his phone , Secondly if he was cheating he wouldn't be so stupid to leave them messages on his phone ,
lastly watch out for the other woman she is after him be care full she might get him
2006-09-22 02:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can flirt behind ur back, he's a very gud candidate 2 cheat on u
b very cautious
2006-09-22 04:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch out, girl! try to get out of the situation before it's too late. i know it will be hard, but I'm sure you'll survive.
2006-09-22 03:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by matty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser.
you MUST leave him you deserve better and do not trust him he is fac&^%%$##king around.
2006-09-22 02:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋