I love this lady but i cant understand why she always shouts at children and seems to enjoy moments when i am angry about what i dont like about her.
It irritates me a lot but she does not care about maintaining peace in our relationship even when i discuss the problem with her
2006-09-21 19:28:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Then leave....
2006-09-21 19:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doomed to be miserable until u decide to make yourself happy and move on.
She will realise that what she is doing is wrong. She cant be happy if she carries on like that.
Have u tried marriage counselling, dont just give up, try at least to make it work.
Tell her u r not happy anymore and u dont just want to leave without u giving it a chance. Tell her u want to go for counselling and if she says no or laughs at u then hand her your divorce papers. She'll know that your not playing anymore.
Playing house is fun, but not if you've been playing it for so long and one of u doesnt really feel like it anymore.
Nobody takes marriage vows seriously anymore. At least give it a real chance, u've spoken to her, now its time to get in the professionals. Its hard to admit, but at least if its over and it ends then u will know that u did everything in your power to try, and in the end thats all u can do. It takes 2 to tango.
2006-09-22 02:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been in this relationship with her? Are you the father of her children? She seems to have a lot of serious anger management problems that need to be dealt with. If you stay with her, she will drain you emotionally, and that would not be healthy for your well being. Are you staying with her just for the sake of the kids? She needs to mature and it doesn't appear this will happen any time soon. If the kids are yours, maybe you can move out with them so they will know of a loving stable environment. I wish you well . . . Laura
2006-09-22 02:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you think of divorce. pls think twice before you do it.
have you think of your kids how will they feel. you two have already wow to be with each other through the thin and thick.
why dont you just have a talk with your wife on how you feel.
or she thought you are only joking.be more angry and ignore her for a few day see how she reacted. do what ever you can to save unless it is till a point of unbearable then no choice to divorce. think carefully. all the best.
2006-09-22 02:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to seek some outside help. If that fails, you may have to end it for the betterment of both of you.
2006-09-22 02:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by marimiata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all Else fails take her to a marriage counselor to try to see what she is thinking.now you did not go in to your marriage so lightly did you?so don't be so quick to get out of it try all your options first then see if you cant work it out that way.good luck
2006-09-22 02:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by spekkers2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's (or who's) stopping ya?
2006-09-22 02:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by Chris™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋