call me and then act all lovey dovey so that he could suddenly just hang up on me? whats up with that? he does this often and its not like i call him
2006-09-21 19:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by datgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Heza weirdo....
2006-09-21 19:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably confused and has conflicted emotions about you. He probably still has love for you, but is also angered by the breakup. Unfortuantly, by calling like that, he's making his confusion your problem - which it may or may not be, depending on the circumstances of the breakup. I assume that you don't want to keep talking to him? If so, you could try to talk to him calmly and patiently, especially if it ended on good terms, or if you broke up with him - and explain calmly why it didn't work (if he needs to know) and why you think you two need distance. But unless your ex is a mature /patient / sane person, this might not go well. If that isn't an option, ask him to stop calling next time he calls, or block him. If he continues in a stalker like fashion, then consider taking more stringent steps - like a restraining order.
If you do want to talk to him, well then, talk. But make sure he is respectful towards you - and tell him that hanging up on you is disrespectful and that you won't talk to him if he keeps doing that to you. Because that is just rude.
2006-09-22 02:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... you seem to have a case of a "psychological boyfriend". those "psychological types" that like to play emotional games so that it empowers them and thus makes them feel "superior". the type that likes to guilt you into thinking you did something wrong when in fact you didn't do anything wrong.
answer: stay away.
try to get out of it before you get too attached. this can lead to other potentially hazardous behavior. not necessarily physically or life threatning hazards, but EMOTIONAL hazards. and you don't wanna be attached to a person like this.
2006-09-22 02:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by buizbuiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing games, if you start hanging up on him, maybe he'll stop calling you. Why should you continue to be nice to someone who's treating you so badly?
2006-09-22 02:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows that you are the best he had and he hang up because he can not take that. You won and he lost! Tell him to stop calling you.
2006-09-22 02:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by OLIVIA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is immature and enjoys messing with your heart. guys like to make sure they still have some control over their ex's. show him you are over him by hanging up on him first.
2006-09-22 02:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by rahulio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wat my ex did
we are in the same grade 12 class and we were put into groups so we could do a progect
I was put with him
we were in his room doing homework when he drugged me and gave me rum and wine and beer and we had sex
i am a singl mum of--------WAIT get this------ TRIPLETS!!!
2006-09-22 02:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Selly-Silly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS TRYING TO STAY CONNECTED TO YOU IN SOME WAY. IT GIVES HIM CONFIDENCE TO "HAVE YOU IN HIS BACK POCKET" WHILE HE GOES OUT AND TRIES TO SEDUCE OTHER WOMEN. HAVING YOU IN HIS BACK POCKET GIVES HIM CONFIDENCE THAT IF HE IS REJECTED, HE IS STILL ACCEPTABLE TO YOU. IT SI LIKE A POWER TRIP. THIS IS COMMON, AND OFTEN REFERRED TO AS 'STRINGING SOMEBODY ALONG'..
2006-09-22 02:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be missing u and also at the same time his ego is not letting him go full way so he is doing it half heartedly.
2006-09-22 02:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause he is crazy stay away from him , he is jealous wants to make sure your with no body else , He cant have you either can any one else
2006-09-22 02:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋