well i went threw my friends sons computer and found videos of naked sixteen year old haveing sex with eachother.should i take action and tell the police?also her six year old son always lifts up my shirt and trys to hit my but and bite my boob.should i take action?
2006-09-21 19:06:25 · 17 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i went into my friends sons computer to find out more about my stages of pregnacy!
2006-09-21 19:11:51 · update #1
you should leave the computer on with the video file open so that they will remember to use a password on their computer so that snoops like you will be discouraged from invading others privacy
2006-09-21 19:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by sniffles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, there are two problems here:
First, why are you on your friend's son's computer??? Were you authorized to do so?? If not, then the first problem is CAUSED by you. If yes, then there are a couple of ways to handle it depending on the age and living situation of the son. If the son is over 18 and lives with your friend (his parent) OR if the son is UNDER 18, then you can bring it up to your friend and let your friend handle it. If the son is OVER 18 and NOT living with the friend, but could be just visiting, then the son is considered an adult and there could be criminal charges concerning what is on the computer.
Second, the six year old DEFINITELY needs to be dealt with by your friend, immediately! Tell your friend what is going on and indicate that you will not tolerate it anymore and if your friend does not put a stop to it, you will not deal with her. You do not need to be put in an uncomfortable situation every time you see your friend with her son. It is in all actuality, rude and disrespectful.
2006-09-21 19:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Morpheus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question here is, what kind of person is your friend? Are you close to her? Is the relationship really valuable to you? It sounds like you are living with these people, are you willing to help the family and these kids? If not, don't say anything about your friend's children, she will only get defensive and is probably aware of their problems. Cut your losses and get out while you still can.
2006-09-21 19:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by endangered_jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why were you going through your friends sons computer in the first place?
2006-09-21 19:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell their mother first, give her a chance and the benefit of the doubt, if it does not work, then contact the police and ask them what are the laws regarding those cases.
2006-09-21 19:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would start by talking to him about the birds and the bees then i would also tell the ploice about what i found but you also need to put a block on your computer.if you and his father have this talk with him and he keeps it up with how he is with you maybe he needs more perphinal help.good luck
2006-09-21 20:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by spekkers2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be snooping around on other peoples computer. How do you know they were16? slap the little kid he will stoop after a few times!
2006-09-21 19:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Diddly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his mommie bout it and she'l know what to do...
'ergghhhh...Mommie 's told you not to do it to others!!!'
yeah somethin like that maybe...you see they are her sons...so let her know bout it..
well I guess kids are so influent with stupid Tv prorams bout sex and the internet....their parents should make a guideline...thypical kids nowadays
2006-09-21 19:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take action by telling your FRIEND, not the police.
2006-09-21 19:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your over 21 get then he** out of there.
2006-09-21 19:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋