Everytime I become close friends with a guy they end up liking me...and It creeps me out because I need them as friends and nothing more and never will like them in that way...I just recently found out a close guy friend of mine is crazy for me...but knows that it will never happen but still has hope...how do I make it so he wont?...
2006-09-21 18:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by tinnaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are just going to have to face it
you are irresistible
it is a curse you will have to live with
2006-09-21 18:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by stillness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 14:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by joyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because your not telling them what you really want from them.If all your looking for is a friend make it clear from the start.You have to set boundaries up front,not in the middle,try that and see what happens with the next friend.
2006-09-21 18:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, you can't change the way he feels about you, only he can. Maybe if you spend less time with him, maybe still talk on the phone, but keep it general and his feelings may change.
2006-09-21 19:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by JEST ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has sexual tension for ya...can not do anything about that. Guys just can not help falling for friends that are girls. Have you ever seen the movie "When Harry met Sally"?
2006-09-21 18:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by pyt_tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the distinct feeling you have big boobs. There's nothing you can do to keep the wolves at bay.
2006-09-21 18:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are boys, you let them know that you are not the type, they will soon be chasing another prospect.
2006-09-21 18:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell him that you're not interested. He'll never know unless you do so. Simple, eh?
2006-09-21 18:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by Paul T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch you body language when with him
2006-09-21 18:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um im afraid you dont...theres not much you can do....sorry about that sometimes its hard but oh well...you cant control his feelings....and incidentally he cant either
2006-09-21 18:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋