2006-09-21 18:47:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
play hard to get ;)
2006-09-21 19:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How to Ask a Guy to be Your Boyfriend
by miguelitabonita
Preface
The point of this explanation is not to showcase my evil powers of manipulation, but rather to share from valuable experience my understanding of the fearful and fragile nature of men when it comes to commitment.
Do not attempt this process unless you have been seeing each other for a minimum of two months. This is a three-week process. The steps must be completed in this order. If at any point the result is not as expected, abort, abort!
Week 1, Step 1
[casually] "Hey, are you seein' anyone else? I mean, do you date much? I'm curious and I kinda wanna know what we've got goin' on here.”
… Assuming the answer is "No, just you," you say, “Cool, me neither.” Then just smile and stop talking. That conversation is over. Do not bring up the subject again until Week 2.
Week 2, Step 2
[affectionately and sincerely] "I'm so into you, dude!"
… Assuming he does not run away or decide you're his new "friend", enjoy each other’s sweetness one more week. If things are still going great and you still want to commit to him, then move onto Step 3.
Week 3, Step 3
[casually] "Hey, I was talking to a friend of mine earlier today and she referred to you as my boyfriend. Is that okay or would you rather I had corrected her? Do you mind if I call you that?"
… Assuming he says, “No, I don’t mind,” and smiles at you, you smile back and say “Okay, cool.” Then stop talking. You now have a boyfriend.
Congratulations. For the next twelve months, there is no need to address the state of your union.
2006-09-22 02:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by miguelitabonita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight up! You've got nothing to lose - if he says yes, then great; if he says no, it's his loss. Just toss your head one way and say 'Oh really?' and walk away. He'll either feel stupid or indifferent. Nevertheless, you can pat yourself on the back for not getting involved with a loser.
2006-09-22 01:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by waterbabe23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was so in love with Mikal and he tried hard to resist but now we've been together for almost 2 years and he is moving in next Wednesday. JUST ASK HIM! How could he resist you?
2006-09-22 01:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you really like him and that you're interested in seeing only him. Ask him how he feels about that and if he would be interested in doing the same. The rest should just flow.
2006-09-22 03:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by S&S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stand in front of him and ask him to love her.....that movie quote(whether or not that's where you were going with the Q) has been stuck in my head for days!
2006-09-22 01:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Luveniar♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down by his side and make out with him for some minutes. No words will be needed.
2006-09-22 02:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by p.g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont. Flirt with him & use all the mind games & tricks women normally use to lure men to them. The men will do the dirty work from there.
2006-09-22 01:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Asian countries, we find it wrong for girls to take the first approach but only boys do.
2006-09-22 01:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot easier than a girl asking a girl to be her girlfriend.
2006-09-22 01:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well she has to go up to him and ask him out.That's how she gets a boyfriend.but only if he says yes than you got a boyfriend.
2006-09-22 16:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by - Allison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋