I am totally and completely inlove with my boyfriend of 5 months. I knew from the moment I met him he was it. But the road in front of us has been ROCKY, he had some finacial trouble and has made some bad choices but he has changed now he made these choices before he met me. He still lives with his ex girlfriend and wants to move out more than you know but has no where to go cant afford to move yet is in the process of starting a new project building 7 homes but hasnt made any money yet. I know he Loves me I know he is not with her they are completely over she knows about me. But the hard part is he has to kiss her *** or she'll kick him out e has no where to go they are not sleeping together I know that for a fact. I know that I'm who he wants and that we have that connection that is hard to find so we have fought to stay together but i'm tired I dont want to let go but how do I hang on and not lose myslef in the process will we ever recover from this when its over?
2006-09-21 18:40:08 · 16 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dump him, he is lying to you. If he can start a project, building 7 homes, he definitely can move out and manage no matter how rough it might get.
2006-09-21 18:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah,this doesn't work,something wrong here,i am afraid you may be being played.There MUST be somewhere else he could stay,some of the other answerer's have already mentioned this-if he wanted desperately to move out of his x's place then he would.You have to be strong and confront this guy over these issues,otherwise you WILL lose yourself in the process.
2006-09-22 01:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will recover if you really love each other, just hang in there. As soon as possible get him out of that exs place too. Thats what is hurting you two the most.
2006-09-22 01:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a very dysfunctional situation. Why can't he live with someone else (like a relative or one of his guy friends)
til he can move on his own? I honestly cannot see breaking up with someone and still living under the same roof........
2006-09-22 01:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by JEST ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch thats rough...all i can say, dear, is that it´s not love if you´re not willing to stick with him through the rough times...i think today´s society has forgotten that and basically said, if it works for YOU do it...but love is about other people. I´d say just stick with him and see if you can´t find some creative way to help out financially. If not, just stick it out...things will get better
2006-09-22 01:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU want my opinion? He has options where he can live. I dont buy that waht so ever. SORRY they say love is blind. TO ME it sounds like he is playing 2 women. LIVING 4 free. AND having sex with both. THATS WHAT I THINK.
2006-09-22 01:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you tell him to give you a call when he gets his affairs in order. tell him you can no longer tollerate the situation as it is and need to be on your own until his life is ready for a new love. good luck
2006-09-22 01:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad.
You are attracted to a looser.
He can't afford himself. what is he going to do for you?
Loves one girl, lives with another, and for economical reasons!
Unless you move in too.
Like"three's company"
2006-09-22 01:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. 5 months and your going through all this. Tell him enough is enough. God i dont know one girl who would be going through all this.
2006-09-22 01:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you involve with a man who is not able to be available to you?
2006-09-22 01:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋