i got a bf who i already had sex with cause of love. as the day past i hating him for leaving me for another women. now he is not with her for sure but i can't forget the betrayal. i am still with thought i not sure cause i love him or is it for scarfical as i allready slept with him. wat can i do now? i can't live without him nither i can live with him... wat should i do?
2006-09-21 17:49:23 · 8 answers · asked by Sanjana G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try school and books.
2006-09-21 17:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your first love,yes you can and will get over him,just as soon as you find someone else love and loves you back.It may seem like the end of the world right now but it gets better,Accept the fact that it's over and just look to move forward and don't look back as you said there's nothing but hurt feeling and betrayal back there so why would want to go back to it?Good luck to you.
2006-09-21 18:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy left u bcos of another gal, forget him. He is not worth ur love. If he did it b4, he'll do it again. U had sex wif him cos of love. But wat did he take yr sacrifice for? He can leave u for another gal, y cant u. He did wrong to u 1st, why worry yrself wif his prob. He was a prob to u when he left, now when he's back, he's another prob. Dun give yrself so many prob. It is better to leave him. Carry on wif yr life. Better things are on the way. Dun look behind, move on, be happy.
Take Care!
2006-09-21 20:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by monokye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slept with him for love then he left you for another woman, chances are he'll do it again. He sampled the candy at the display counter for free and left high and dry unless you want to contact a disease and have your heart stomped on again move on and focus on yourself and your future. Time will ease your wounds and when your heart has healed love will find you leave the candy man to play.
)o( Goddess Bless )o(
2006-09-21 18:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Deity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just moving around. From you to another girl, and from another girl to another again. In this world, no one can't live without anyone. You will find someone better one day, someone who love you, but not only want to have sex with you.
2006-09-21 20:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't going to be faithful, he is putting you at risk for stds, as well as emotional trauma. Even if you have committed yourself to him physically, you shouldn't stay with him if he is going to disrespect you. Breaking up hurts, but not as much as a really long and hard relationship with someone who cheats.
2006-09-21 17:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by DevonChaos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be very hard to get over the fact he left you for someone else. if you can't get over it, you should move on. I stayed with someone for a long time after he was with other people & I never got that complete love for him back. it is hard to move on but it can be worth it
2006-09-21 18:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay put and let some time go by.
You will be able to think clear.
2006-09-21 17:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋