2006-09-21 17:47:27 · 15 answers · asked by julielove327 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not completely over it, but, mostly, relieved. I drove up to a bridge over a river and threw his ring off one side and mine off the other, with a great sense of accomplishment!
2006-09-21 17:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it was a combination of relief, a little bit of sadness (probably because I felt that I failed in the relationship), happy (because I don't have to go through the headaches of fighting) and hope.
Having a divorce is not a victory, but if you sincerely look at what the problems were on BOTH ends of the relationship and learn how to solve them (meaning either fix something in yourself and/or making sure that the next person DOES NOT HAVE the traits that rub you wrong), then the next time you get into a relationship, you will be wiser, both in your choice as well as proper changes in yourself. This is what I am doing!! :-)
2006-09-21 19:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Morpheus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deflated by the finality of it all. Also furious and unforgiving at the divorce process during which I was terribly maligned and made the target of extreme falsehoods by my wife, her lawyers and therapist. I know it sounds like sour grapes, but, really, I believe that gender bias still is very much a part of divorce proceedings.
2006-09-21 18:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was relieved. When I finally signed the papers and went before the judge I felt very free. Like I had more options available to me in my life. I was over the relationship by that point, and I wanted to get on with the rest of my life.
2006-09-21 17:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by DevonChaos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a dagger thru the heart.
time helps though and we be friends even after all these years.
It sure was hard to start going out again - but getting better at it all the time! Find someone to talk to really helps---or throw yourself into a hobby or two!!
2006-09-21 17:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a important replace i advise you've been married to him you loved him at one time so if in case you've some form of lil attachment to him, and the actual undeniable reality that he cheated on you you made the right selection to divorce him, even with the indisputable fact that that's probable merely the sensation that that's fairly going to ensue you do not have the attachment to him anymore, so do not situation about it you've a guy now it is going to all be ok. desire this helped! :)
2016-11-23 14:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been married, never been divorced but I imagine it's 100X better than leaving a lousy job with an alpha-hotel for a boss.
2006-09-21 17:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with me it hurts your heart and soul,you feel lost and alone,if you have children you jet closer to them,you want to know what went wrong but their is no answer,it just happen,you will find love again and maby that was not the one you should have been with, just don't look hard and love will find you when the time is wright,just believe in your self and respect your self the pain will go away and a calm will come back,just take one day at a time
2006-09-21 18:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by mensert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I was alive again for the first time, finaly I could breath with out feeling like I needed a inhailer
2006-09-21 18:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad because of all of the hard work i put into a marriage for nothing,Yet happy because the pain of being with someone who didn't want me was now gone.
2006-09-21 17:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋