The only way you can know if she is a lesbian is if she chooses to tell you that she is. Period. Most lesbians, if they aren't marching in a Gay Pride parade, don't exactly carry buttons or signs that announce their sexual orientation. Even if there appears to be signals of some kind, it's best to not jump to conclusions.
I suppose that asking your friend about her sexual orientation isn't too much of a problem if you are relatively close friends. It's a question that these days is getting less offending, even among casual acquaintances. Nevertheless, I might suggest asking only if the issue of sexual relationships comes up as it really doesn't matter otherwise. (Honestly, it's not information that you have to have unless you have certain intentions.)
I guess that I'll agree with others in saying that a true lesbian is one that is exclusively into sexual relationships with other women. They might be willing to have intercourse with a man, but generally only with a purpose (such as trying to become pregnant). Hope that helps.
2006-09-21 17:53:19
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answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6
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You can find out if a person is a lesbian by utilizing the following steps:
1: Make sure your friend is in a room with you
2: Take off your pants
3: Spread your legs
4: If you're a guy, and she goes at you, then she isnt a lesbian
5: If you're a girl and she goes at you, she is a lesbian
6: If you're a girl and she doesnt go at you, she isn't a lesbian
Try caressing her, and hugging her a little. Maybe you can smell her.
Maybe your Hp is low, and you need to go get a powerup to be able to do this. A good powerup can be alcohol, humans love it.
If you're a bird, alcohol wont work, maybe try covering yourself in peanut butter and some bird seed. If you have 4 limbs, getting on all fours wont hurt. But if you're a bird, you cant do that.
Hope this helps!
2006-09-21 17:48:54
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answered by ADX 1
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I think the only real way to know for sure is if she tells you she is. Be a true friend and eventually she would volunteer the information if she thinks it's something you need to know.
The question you need ask first is why is it important for you to know if she is or not. Would it harm your friendship if the answer was yes? Most likely if she is a lesbian, the reason she hasn't told you is she's afraid of losing your friendship. Is knowing this little bit of information really important enough to you to risk a good friendship? Respect her privacy as you would want someone to respect yours. If she wants to tell you, let her do it at a time of her choosing and on her own terms. That's what real friends do.
2006-09-21 17:59:16
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answered by backpackwayne 5
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You can tell a person is a true lesbian if they tell you they are or by asking them. Lesbians don't have to fit into any stereotype that society puts out as a lesbian identifier. One could always say there's the vibe she's sending your way, but you could misread that as men misread if a woman is truly interested in him (and vice-versa). You clear up all matters of this sort by simply asking.
2006-09-21 17:46:21
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answered by hellokittyt012263 3
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You can only tell if she tells you and she only has relationships with women. A true lesbian is a woman who is exclusively attracted to other women.
2006-09-23 12:53:33
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answered by Anonymous
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A true lesbian is someone that is only with other girls and all they are sexually attracted to.. Ask her it shouldn't bother her
2006-09-21 17:39:41
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answered by Amy M 5
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If she is a little in to you, maybe. If she is everywhere( stalking) or to another person, more chance of yes. If she talks and kisses a girl later in the future, it is a dare or yes. If she slept with a girl, so yes.or just ask!!if she hesiaetes than yyyyeeeesss
2006-09-21 17:44:07
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answered by hpmaniac23 3
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You can really classify lesbians, unless they act manly and dress guyish. You havent notice that lesbians comein all sizes and shapes. But u should confront your friend if it bothers you
2006-09-21 17:42:42
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answered by sugar507 2
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She tells you, or she wants to do stuff with other girls. True lesbian is someone who only wants relationships and sex with girls.
2006-09-21 17:37:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Kiss her on the mouth. If you're a guy and she punches you out, or if you're a girl and she uses tongue, she's a lesbian.
2006-09-21 17:38:57
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answered by Canned Spam 2
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