My friend asked me to ask this. She says her husband's long time friend had been visitting, she says he made her fell uncortable with certain attitudes.
The guy is married and his wife is older than him, on the other hand my friend is younger than her husband and very attractive yet she is not a flirt, she is a very moral and concervative, she loves her husband and her children although she has had a tough time in her marriage.
She wants to ask if this attitudes are of a man who is trying to get something from her.
This are the attitudes:
Tried to touch her hand when she handed him something
Tried to get as close to her as he could
caught him staring at him several times
The 3 of them, guy friend and wife together with my friend went shopping, he goes outside the department store and calls her on cell to tell her that his wife was in the store and he jus wanted to let her know that he was outside alone. Is he Flirting or what?
2006-09-21 17:21:49 · 12 answers · asked by Mother of three 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If there is any doubt, she should talk with her husband and let him know that his friend makes her feel very uncomfortable. Have her explain the reasons you told us. If she wants, she can tell her husband that she don't mind the two guys hanging out. But please don't leave the friend alone with her.
The friend might say, it's just harmless flirting. But, really, have you ever seen flirting that the flirter wasn't looking for more in the relation?
He may call her being a b*t*h, but I think she would rather be treated like at a business office rather than wondering every time if he's flirting or is she just reading too much into it.
In marriage, you sometimes have to cut ties with old relations and to make the bond together stronger.
Does he ever see a sexy outfit and mention he'd like to see her in it? or compliment her features often? Worse, has he ever proposed couple swapping or the three of them in bed?
I know I only have one side of the story and it may very well be coincidences, but either way, if I were she, I would be sure I was never in a compromising position when he is around or coming over. This includes drinking, showers, etc. As Harry Potter fansites say, "Constant Vigilance!"
2006-09-21 17:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by captn_carrot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever assume anything from a man.
Women tend to forecast a relationship.
Men don't, they'll just do it and add words to it.
If he hasn't said anything or actually forced a sexuall assault, then your just daydreaming.
Talk to him about it in front of his wife. Approach them with an apologetic attitude. His wife will know if he's lieing or not.
Secretes are for kindergardeners.
2006-09-22 00:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is definitely flirting. I hope she has the sense not to get involved with him! Situations like this almost always end in disaster for everyone involved.
2006-09-22 00:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cant get much clearer then that unless he just grabs her and gives her a knee knocking, tongue tying, mind boggling, kiss.
2006-09-22 00:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he wants to do the nasty. his wife must not be satisfyin him. if u want it to stop then talk to his wife on a friend basis and secretly tell her to try sumtin freaky wit him one night. if it work hell be hipnotised (dat would work on me)
2006-09-22 00:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by jp_todd@swbell.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is,,,,go ahead and flirt back. Betcha get more than casual touching HMMMMMMMMMMMMM
2006-09-22 00:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm confused by the relationships you just described, but, yes, he is trying to get something.
2006-09-22 00:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by hippiekiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is flirting.
2006-09-22 00:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is up to something.
She needs to stear clear.
2006-09-22 00:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get in your pants and youre loving it!!!
2006-09-22 00:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋