Situation: was in a great relationship, broke up coz' of the uncertainty with the long distance relationship thing (both visit eachother about 2/3 times a year & stay at least 2 weeks per visit), both asians but girl born and raised in the U.S. so talks of moving back and living and working in asia did come up but still uncertain so in the end girl decides to break up...still talked on the phone coz' love her a whole deal and vice versa...2 months later girl calls, informs that she slept with exboyfriend, got preg., had abortion, feels terrible, did not want to lie and keep as a secret so decided to...inform...love and care is all still there, but so damn pissed...what would you do? after thinking things out would you give the girl a second chance? or what?......confused, mad...
2006-09-21 17:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by Ron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
long distance relationships are always short
2006-09-21 17:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but this girl clearly does not know what she wants and is keeping you in limbo with another male.This means shes very confused and torn in her life.It is not a good idea to get involved in a relationship that is unstable.You really need to give things time,if she is truly serious about you she will balance her life and work on the issues which are making her confused.You need to move on with your life as well.You are hanging on to a relationship which is just taking you for a ride and burning you out.Get some counseling and move on.
2006-09-22 00:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're her "go to guy". You can't stay mad forever if you really love her though. This really isn't a question for all of us. Only you can make this decision. Sorry I wasn't much help.
2006-09-22 00:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rather be Fishin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realy truly care for her be there for her and forgive her help her get through this hard time prove to her that you love her even is she isnt close to you and i suggest trying to move closer to gether asap as for being pissed of course you are a girl you like was with another man its a mans nature to be agressive to other men when it comes to girls that they like kind like how bucks but heads to win a female.... any way i wish you the best of luck
2006-09-22 00:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pcow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her GOOD BYE! is simple as clear water
2006-09-22 00:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be done with the ho
2006-09-22 00:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋