2006-09-21 17:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by aaron_23446 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sometimes you feel like you never will let go, and in reality she will always be on your mind. BUT..it gets easier as time goes on. Its true..time heals all wounds.
Keep your mind occupied, keep your head up, and if you need professional help to move on, dont hesitate to get it.
Grieve fully and deeply and remember it is better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all.
2006-09-21 17:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by gg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really hard. If it's time for you to move on you do need to cut contact. You won't be able to move on if you continue to have a relationship.
You also need a lot of hobbies. You need something else to focus your thoughts on. You need other memories to think back on and you have to create those memories. Stories that don't involved that person to tell.
Do something drastically different, go on a trip abroad, heck do one of those work exchange programs and live in another country for a month or so if you have to.
You need time for yourself to heal and even if you've already been separated a long time, if you are still hung up on that person you haven't let yourself heal. And you really need time spent just on you to let yourself heal.
Don't be afraid to think of the person, just figure out a way to refocus your thoughts when you do.
Good Luck
2006-09-21 17:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that there is many many more woman then her and that she is only one person. She is in your heart and mind but this will pass overtime. Your disappointment is mostly because of the "fantasy" that you have created in your mind. The constant repetitive obessive thinking of her is what is creating this strong emotional response. You can break this by creating new dreams. Think of the wonderful fact that you are now free. Think of the wonderful and unknown experience life now has to offer you. Think of the new opportunities. The endless possibilites life and someone new will offer you. Focus on these things and your memories of her will quickly fade. There will be times where your emotion will return to her but let them out and then focus again on the "new" possibilites that life will give you. I promise you the feeling you have of her will fade. Let yourself be angry about her rejecting you. Then forgive. Then focus again on your new dreams and aspirations. God sped.
2006-09-23 08:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that once upon a time, there was this girl but with the twist of luck, she's not really meant for me. Mingle with other people. Sooner or later, you will find the right someone. Or maybe, I am that girl ;)
2006-09-21 17:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Maganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breaking up is never easy. I know you may think this young woman is the center of you universe. but as the old saying goes time really heals all wounds. find somthing you enjoy doing time will take care of the rest
2006-09-21 17:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Steven B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your hurt but there is no easy way. It takes TIME - with time the hurt will get less and less. Took me 2 years to get over my boyfriend. Stay busy and stay positive - in time you will get over them and think of them less and less. Take care
2006-09-21 17:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a nail to drive out a nail.
find someone else. of course.. yes.. it is easier said than done.. but i have someone just like this.. and my heart always goes back to her in between these other women.. but she is married now therefore, "forbidden" and i can either wait.. or try to move on.
2006-09-21 17:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by MerryMortician 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your self occupied with other things, and surround your self with new people, slowly but surely you might start letting her go, it wont be easy, it will take some time, but you will be ready to start a new!
2006-09-21 17:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know that one myself. It helps to not be in contact with them and to find someone else.
2006-09-21 17:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen:
"Every cloud has a silver lining."
Let her go!
2006-09-21 17:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by cracio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋