my bf always doubts me when my phone is engaged. Last night i was talking to my brother at 11pm. My brother wanted to talk to me sumthing abt my new career so i was talking ot him about 1 hour and my bf thought i was talking to a man n i wanted to have sex with tht men. what should i do? i try to convince my bf but he doesnt trust me. I dont want to ask my bro to call my bf coz my bro might think what a jerk head i'm with.i can't forget him and now he's sending me so much abusive messages that i am with another men, etc.How cana gal take it when a man whom she loves a lot is condeming her that she's with another men?what shud i do to get him back?
2006-09-21 17:02:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is not worth getting back. so go for good options. life is not for crying. with this person i feel u will be always unhappy. u cant change someones nature.
2006-09-21 17:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run as fast as you can in the other direction.
when there are abusive messages coming, you are being abused.
get out before it gets worse.
you are right, your brother would think he is a jerk because he is one. that should tell you something right there. abusive people try to separate you from the people who care about you. if you give in and stop talking freely on the phone, this is what is going to happen.
2006-09-22 00:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by new yorkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him all the hate mail back so he can see how it looks, and talk it out with him, but keep your dignity and don't let yourself be abused!
I'm sure there are many more men that would love you, you don't need to have the crooked love of a hater!
2006-09-22 00:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want back a man who doesn't trust you, condemns you, attacks you, deliberately manipulates you, ABUSES YOU. Run, don't just walk away from this loser. You don't need him - just put this down to experience - a lesson in what NOT to do.
Good luck.
2006-09-22 00:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust you----RUN!
ITS NOT GONNA GET ANY BETTER AND WHY PUT UP WITH THAT?!??
If you've tried to explain to him and he won't listen--then maybe he just doesn't WANT to believe you! That way he can always feel like a victim in this relationship!
2006-09-22 00:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like he is accusing you because he feels guilty about something.
You really can't do anything to get back at him, well you shouldn't.
2006-09-22 00:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋