Have supported, cleaned, counseled, refereed genuinely loved he's kids for over 9 years. (I was a good friend of their mothers. (And NO I am not a home wrecker) we were good friends, and she knew the children liked me. May be this is why he chose me.
2006-09-21 16:22:38 · 3 answers · asked by ?333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LET HIM! HE needs to experience the FULL Responsibility of having to raise, care for, pay for the children he helped bring to life!
Step out of the way, let him get his act together and ACTUALLY Take on the FULL BURDEN!
2006-09-21 16:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if they are his children, the only way to know for sure is to let him try, accept that he's not going to get it completely right the first time and then be there to pick up the pieces if he fails. You love these children honey, as does he, let him try to do right by them. You'll never know if you don't give him a chance.
2006-09-21 23:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you and he can answer this since you have been together this long...
2006-09-21 23:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋