Just curious,I find myself wanting to go to the cemetery alot to visit my daughter who passed in August,is this normal?
2006-09-21 16:22:20 · 23 answers · asked by pumpkin 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sorry for your loss. If I even think of anyone of my kids dying, I can feel my soul leaving or my heart wanting to break.
I would go everyday for a while, im sure.
IT is normal, you are greiving.
(( HUGS )))
2006-09-21 16:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm very sorry for your loss.
When my mom died, I was at the cemetery constantly. I found lots of comfort in being near her physical remains.
No, it's 20 years later...dad has joined mom. I always go on Mothers Day, Fathers Day, the anniversaries of their deaths and once in between their birthdays. (They were only a week and a half apart.) An extra trip or 2 gets tossed in, depending what's going on. Sometimes I still need to feel physically close to them.
As for if it's normal or not - you just lost your daughter. Do whatever feels right to you. Don't worry about what other people think. Everyone deals with grief in their own way.
2006-09-21 16:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I the only time I went after my Dad died was to see the new headstone my mother purchased and also the one for my little brother who died at 2 days old before I was even born.
Yes it is normal to want to visit the cemetary to visit your daughter. I'm sorry for your loss...I don't think I'd ever get over it if my daughter died.
2006-09-22 11:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that.
A Passing of a Loved one is an incredible emotional fight to survive
Creamation was our choice for our mother. I don't know of anyone buried in a cemetary but to me..It seems like a hard way to celebrate a passing in the family. Its not for the one that is gone..burial and cemetaries to me are for the living.
I don't find myself going to the ocean when were we spread her ashes because to me she is always with me. I can talk to her at any moment.
I think you may need to find another outlet for your grief instead of going to the cemetary.
Try a Journal, and write to her in a journal. To express it and let it out of your mind, may help you release the stress your grief has placed upon your body.
I wish you much luck. I know how difficult it is too let go. But you are still here...You are still with the living so don't forget to live your life as well. Before it passes you by.
2006-09-21 16:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very normal for parents especially to visit their child often. My friend's mother goes to visit him all the time. I try to visit 2-3 times a year, mainly because I'm off at school.
2006-09-21 16:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by thirdeyeblind_5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. Go as often as you need or want. I am sure it helps you feel connected to her. There is no too much or too little on this. Do whatever helps you grieve and heal.
I have rarely gone to the cemetary to visit a lost loved one. But I have never lost a child. You remain in my prayers.
2006-09-21 16:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes..it is part of the grieving process..a feeling of closeness....I find myself visiting less now, but
I think of my parents everyday and say hello to them in my thoughts....it's been 13 and 19 years since they died.....They will always be in my heart!!!
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your daughter....you are not alone in your current feelings....go whenever you want and time will heal the pain.....things do get better and you will realize that life goes on around you and immerse back into it for your own mental health....keep her in your heart.....
2006-09-21 16:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sammyleggs222 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it's perfectly normal. I go visit my dad's grave as often as I can. You need to remember, though, your daughter is not there. Only her body.
2006-09-21 16:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by jperk1941 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya it's normal! My brother died in July of 03' and I visit him a lot! Good Luck to you!
2006-09-21 16:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Emmaliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋