At school there is this beautiful girl named Madilita that i have been trying to date. I gave her my number on the second day of me knowing her. She didnt call me till the next week. Then on thursday of that week i asked her about us,she said she has to get to know me better and that she's not fast. So there's this dude in 6th period,the only class me and her have together. And this guy named Spencer always tries his best to embarrase me in front her,and he never fails to,he always asks me whats up with me and her(in class). Yesterday he called me a virgin in front of her and she laughed at it, so i lied and argued him down that i wasn't. Then today he asked me how does "it" look in front of her to test my virginity. Then i told the truth and she asked me if i was and i told her "honestly,yes". then Spencer asked me why did i lie about it,i told him because he always laughs at stuff like that. Then she stood up for me,she said "His time will come",(to be continued)
2006-09-21 16:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Spencer being the jerk he is,pointed something out after she said that. He said its gone be her after she said that,now i feel quite akward talking to her but i want her sooooooo bad. but what can i do to make Spencer shut up,i feel like killing him,i'd love if he missed class just for at least one day. HELP ME!,he's making my love life a living hell.
2006-09-21 16:22:52 · update #1
First four answers are no help.
2006-09-21 16:27:16 · update #2
The thing is he keeps embarrasing me in front of her more and more each day,and he's good at making her laugh at me.
2006-09-21 16:28:11 · update #3
She won't give me her number,she called me,but she called on private,her parents are strict,Spencer put me on blast about that too.
2006-09-21 16:30:59 · update #4
PLEASE DONT STOP ANSWERING,I NEED ALL THE ANSWERS IN THE WORLD I CAN GET DONT STOP,I DONT CARE IF THERE ARE 1000 messages,keep answering!,thank you!
2006-09-21 16:33:26 · update #5
omg what an @ss! god i would want to shoot him too! ya know if you ever get sick, go to school and please barf on him or something so he gets sick. But back to the point...you should say embarrassing stuff about him so he'll leave you alone, but without being to much of a jerk so that that girl doesnt think you're evil.
2006-09-21 16:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and get the chicks s/n, or number. Simple as that, or wait till after class and talk to her. I'm sure if "spencer" is acting the way you portray him as, she hates him just as much as you do. Just go with the flow. You'll do fine, and in about 3 months if she turns out to be cool, you'll be laughing at how nervous you used to be around her, when you got her around your arms catching a flick.
ALSO: once you and the girl start talking more you guys will develop inside jokes for spencer(if she feels the same way) and then u can use them, and laugh back at him, and he'll see how it feels and back off.
2006-09-21 16:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by GTi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like Spencer is gay, and you are just not interested in him. Tell him there can never be anything between you, and he shuold find another guy to flirt with; embarase him in front of Madilita. Anticipate what he might do, and have smething ready to make him look like the idiot he is.
2006-09-21 16:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Spencer is a jerk
You are a virgin...you should be.
She didn't think less of you but probably more.
She stood by you
Spencer does not have a grip on your insecurities now.
What is the problem now?
2006-09-21 16:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to her on the phone and get to know her very good and then don't let that retard mess things up with you two. If you like her the way I think you do then be the bigger MAN and ignore the idiot.
2006-09-21 16:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spencer being a jerk is actually making her like you even more. i think hes a jerk because maybe he likes her, he is probably jealous, dont let him get to you
2006-09-21 16:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him because he's looking for a reaction or laugh with him he wont expect it and he might stop
2006-09-21 16:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the jerk. He is looking for a reaction from you, and you are giving him what he wants.
2006-09-21 16:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BREAK HIS AS*S OFF BEFORE HE TAKES YOUR GIRL.
2006-09-21 16:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋