I've known so many people that have ended up marrying someone based almost solely on their physical attraction to the other person. A number of these people ended up unhappy, or divorced.
Men and women are both equally guilty of looking at the "outer package" and not bothering to see what's really inside.
When will people learn that a good personality is the most important thing to look for in another person. Beauty, and masculinity are so overrated. Every where you look when you go out, you can see a beautiful woman, or a real buff guy. There a dime a dozen. People with a good personality are more rare, and in the long run, usually make better companions in life.
Agree or disagree??
2006-09-21 16:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, I do agree. It takes a mature person who has been hurt a few times to realize this. If you find a person with a good personality with whom you are compatable (it takes both) that person, in your eyes will be a beauty to behold. I learned this too late, but hopefully you didn't.
LOL
2006-09-21 16:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pam of Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree for the most part. You had said that the 'personality' is the most important thing. And you're right, it's important. Fact is that someone can have an amazing personality and it just doesn't 'click' between the two of you. I think there are MANY things more important than what's going on with our looks. And I know that's mainly what you were saying so I hope you don't find what I was saying too petty as it wasn't meant to be taken that way. Don't get me wrong 'physical attraction' to the one you're with is important. It's just not the number one thing as so many make it out to be.
2006-09-21 16:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society has taught us that beauty is skin deep, but ugly is to the bone!
It's because we are a visual society.
TV and culture adore beautiful people, and scorn those that are not Arnold S. or Anna Nicole Smith. Maybe if we put nothing but ugly people on TV from now on, people will like those who aren't perfect. The only place it might not matter is the work place, and even then that's a BIG MAYBE!
2006-09-21 16:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phrase "good personality" always sounded fake to me (like it's what the frat guy says to the half-plastic sorority girl, "I swear, I look for a 'good personality'!"), but your question sounds real.
You should feel attracted to whom you love. Many people feel attracted to many different things, and different forms of physical beaty.
Even if you want a good-looking person, there are enough people who look good enough in enough ways to make that totally secondary.
2006-09-21 16:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Agree 100 percent, You sound like a real man to realize that because many people dont. I go by personality, if their fun, if they take life way to serious.
2006-09-21 17:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must have took a lengthy time period to style! i imagine you should bypass for it because relationships like this do not are available many circumstances. also, you want to enable the relationship move clearly, do not get so below pressure out! solid luck
2016-11-23 14:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only do I agree, but I am lucky enogh to have found that person with the beautiful personality.
2006-09-21 16:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to keep looking until you get both the inside and outside of your dreams.
2006-09-21 16:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-21 16:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what you are
2006-09-21 18:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by no need to report me i did it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋