she's coming on saturday the 23rd .for a family reunion she invited me .which it's also my birthdate .i'm having a hard time getting over her but i know i need to let her go . so i'm going to tell her that i'm moving on and for what she did to me i can't take her back. a poem to her . my heart sank.the beat died i sat down there i cried you said it wasn't there anymore you said you didn't care you said you didn't love me you said we weren't a perfect pair but life continues and i still remember when my soul wasn't a dreary november i said it was all i wanted i said i'd love you for ever i said i'd be by your side i said we belong together on december the 14th we said we do. on september the 1st you left a lonley home with a broken heart . i just hope the grass is greener on the other side . if not that's your loss and have a very cyber life
2006-09-21 15:44:48 · 10 answers · asked by prince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well now, it sounds like you need some male bonding and a trip to a strip club.
2006-09-21 15:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by want it bad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that your marriage didn't work. If I were you, I would give her the poem and make a copy of it for myself. Don't be too quick to jump into a relationship. Take time to heal. Go out more with your friends/family, vent, date, cry, pray, and do all the things you enjoy while doing things to advance and better yourself. Writing out your pain is very therapeutic and can ease some of the pain and get you in the right direction to moving on. I said to make a copy of the letter because I too use to write poems about a person who made me sad but as time went by and I read those poems, I laugh and couldn't believe I felt that way about the person! Be optimistic and go have some fun! There is a whole world out there with someone out there right for you. Take care.
2006-09-21 16:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by sam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't send her any poems.....just let it go. I'm only saying this to help you cause obviously I don't know you, but from my personal experience let it go and if I were you, you should probably not even be in each other's company anymore......I know it sounds harsh but that's life. She moved on.....now you have to....there's alot of other women out there. Consider it a scar and move on.....how do you think Sinatra was able to put so much emotion into the lyrics of the songs?....cause he lived it too. Move on and good luck.
2006-09-21 15:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad. You were married for less than a year and she left? Why would you go to a family reunion with her? Do you two have kids together? It's a heartbreaking poem, but I dont understand it with the details given.
2006-09-21 16:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While poems are one thing, just simply tell her that u respectfully decline her invitation and tell her you're moving on and seeing her won't be a good idea. Then let her go and let her learn her lesson the hard way.
2006-09-21 16:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suround yourself with friends and stay busy. You'll be over her in no time.
2006-09-21 15:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow......um ok!!!! very intense. Just move on......find someone new. ITs not the end of the world, get someone who will be got to you. good luck
2006-09-21 15:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by zeena 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it looks like if you already did
2006-09-21 20:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by super girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..so..is this your situation or a poem?i do not get it..
2006-09-21 15:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
poems are gay.
2006-09-21 16:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋